I have been wishing and hoping and trying to have a reasonably happy life for years now. I was in a very bad marriage that seemed to have ended in 2007. Yet the person, pretending to be my friend, was able to trick me into a very vulnerable position in which I have been truly harmed on every level. I appear to be trapped and have not seen anyway out for years.
My career is in shreds. My finances are shot. What to do? I asked the YJ:
What can I do to move on from all this? I received Hexagram 37.3.5 to 27.
Hexagram 37, People in the Home
Oracle
'People in the home.
A woman's constancy is fruitful.'
The old Chinese character for 'home' shows a pig under a roof. A home is where people rear a pig together, sharing wealth, work and value. People in the home cooperate in their shared space and invest in it together (as in a family, workplace, school of thought or culture), and within the structure it provides they can recognize and understand what is valuable.
To create a successful home, you need to have the constancy of a woman. Steadily, over time, your work creates a space in which all can grow freely into their natural form, and find their place and their connections with others. You allow space for new things to enter and grow, becoming part of the whole inner ecosystem. You keep the space for living in.
Image
'Wind comes forth originally from fire: People in the Home.
A noble one's words have substance and her actions are consistent.'
(People in the Home: I live alone and have no family, so I really just don't understand how this image relates to my situation)
Sequence
People in the Home follows from Hexagram 36, Brightness Hidden:
'Injury on the outside naturally means turning back towards the home, and so People in the Home follows.'
Pair
People in the Home forms a pair with Hexagram 38, Opposing:
Opposing means outside. People in the Home means inside.'
Changing Lines
Line 3
'People in the home scold and scold,
Regrets, danger: good fortune.
Wife and child giggle and giggle.
In the end, shame.'
(Scolding seems to be pointing to minor conflict. In my case, I have been experiencing really severe major conflict in my living arrangement that is both frightening and life threatening.)
Line 5
'The king enters his own home.
Do not worry. Good fortune.'
(What king? I am a woman so who does this king figure refer to?)
Changing to:
Hexagram 27, Nourishment
This makes no sense to me since I don't have a happy home now, nor do I have a happy home to return to. I live in a building with male predators as neighbors. There's no way I can make a home here. Both my parents are deceased and there is no home for me any where on earth. So why would the YJ bring up 37? I would welcome a comment from anyone.
My career is in shreds. My finances are shot. What to do? I asked the YJ:
What can I do to move on from all this? I received Hexagram 37.3.5 to 27.
Hexagram 37, People in the Home
Oracle
'People in the home.
A woman's constancy is fruitful.'
The old Chinese character for 'home' shows a pig under a roof. A home is where people rear a pig together, sharing wealth, work and value. People in the home cooperate in their shared space and invest in it together (as in a family, workplace, school of thought or culture), and within the structure it provides they can recognize and understand what is valuable.
To create a successful home, you need to have the constancy of a woman. Steadily, over time, your work creates a space in which all can grow freely into their natural form, and find their place and their connections with others. You allow space for new things to enter and grow, becoming part of the whole inner ecosystem. You keep the space for living in.
Image
'Wind comes forth originally from fire: People in the Home.
A noble one's words have substance and her actions are consistent.'
(People in the Home: I live alone and have no family, so I really just don't understand how this image relates to my situation)
Sequence
People in the Home follows from Hexagram 36, Brightness Hidden:
'Injury on the outside naturally means turning back towards the home, and so People in the Home follows.'
Pair
People in the Home forms a pair with Hexagram 38, Opposing:
Opposing means outside. People in the Home means inside.'
Changing Lines
Line 3
'People in the home scold and scold,
Regrets, danger: good fortune.
Wife and child giggle and giggle.
In the end, shame.'
(Scolding seems to be pointing to minor conflict. In my case, I have been experiencing really severe major conflict in my living arrangement that is both frightening and life threatening.)
Line 5
'The king enters his own home.
Do not worry. Good fortune.'
(What king? I am a woman so who does this king figure refer to?)
Changing to:
Hexagram 27, Nourishment
This makes no sense to me since I don't have a happy home now, nor do I have a happy home to return to. I live in a building with male predators as neighbors. There's no way I can make a home here. Both my parents are deceased and there is no home for me any where on earth. So why would the YJ bring up 37? I would welcome a comment from anyone.