Hello everyone, my name is Max, and I am posting here for the first time. Even though I have been consulting the I Ching for many years, I have only recently been joining this community. For the little that I could explore so far, it seems a very thriving one, and the website is very well made and helpful, so I thought I would share a reading I did a few days ago regarding a difficult decision that I needed to take, and which at this stage I have taken, but with the reservation of possibly changing it. The reading was not completely clear to me, and in any case, other people may be able to spot connections, hints or indications that may have escaped me. So, a little background on this decision. Last year (well, 2017: a difficult year, in many ways), I felt that I wanted/needed to make a radical change for this coming year (2018), and so I applied for two different schools, very different in nature, even though they have points in common (I must also add that I am an Italian living between Italy and the UK, with all the challenges that living between two places/cultures means). I had therefore applied for a Masters in Ecology and Spirituality (in the UK), which should start in January, and for which I have been offered a place. At the same time, earlier in the year, I had also applied for the Living School of Action and Contemplation, founded by Richard Rohr, a Franciscan friar who I have been following for the last few years. This would mainly be online learning, but it would imply traveling several times to the States, as the school is based in New Mexico. I must point out that this had been my first choice; applying for the Masters came only later in the year. To cut a long story short, now I've got to the point that I had to enroll for the Masters, if I wanted to do it, as it starts rather soon, but I won't know the reply from the school in New Mexico until the beginning of February. What this means is that, if i turned down the Masters, waiting to know from the other school, and they said no, I would find myself with nothing. For this reason, I did a reading a few days ago, asking: "What if I waited to hear from the Rohr school?" (the one in America). The response of the oracle was: Hex. 55, Abundance, with lines 2,3,4 changing to Hex. 19, Approach (I must point out that I use Richard Wilhelm's and Cary F. Baynes translation). Even though at first the reading seemed promising ('Abundance': and it is enough to read the general description, the judgement and the image to feel so), the lines are proving rather more obscure to decipher. The description refers to a general time of abundance: "Clarity within, movement without: this produces greatness and abundance"; "It is not given to every mortal to bring about a time of outstanding greatness and abundance", and so that felt good -- like: it would be good for me to wait, as, most likely, this is the best of the two schools for me to attend (which is in fact, also, what I have been feeling all along these months -- this is the "clarity within" aspect). But the lines, to an extent, take away that sense of clarity, and leave me unsure as to whether I would in fact be offered a place at that school at all (and even if they did, if I had the economic resources to travel back and forth from the States at least three times -- but that is a problem I could easily deal with at a later stage). I won't report what the changing lines are saying in detail, as it would make the post too long, but only a few insights: Second line "(...) the polestars can be seen at noon. Through going one meets with mistrust and hate (...)". Third line: "(...) the small stars can be seen at noon. He breaks his right arm (...)". In these two lines, there is a clear reference to an eclipse of the sun, and pointing to difficulties between the 'ruler' (who in this case, I would take, is Father Rohr himself, running the school) and the 'able man' (myself). This is particularly evident in line 3, where the 'able man' "breaks his right arm", and therefore is not to blame for being thus hindered in action. In line 4, however, there is a change of mood: even though there is still the eclipse of the sun ("The curtain is of such fullness/That the polestars can be seen at noon"), there is also a sense that the block has been somehow removed: "He meets his ruler, who is of like kind. Good fortune". I will not go into a reading of Hex. 19 just not to make this post even longer, especially as it points to a future scenario that would be applicable only if I waited.What about the Masters, then? As I said, at this stage I had to accept it, not to lose that possibility altogether, but I am still feeling unsure about this. I had done a reading about the Masters too, about a month ago, and the response was rather blunt: it was Hex. 8, Holding Together. A positive response, overall, but it baffled me that there were no changing lines, as if to imply (but I may be wrong here) that there would be no progression to the situation. The Hexagram aptly points to the fact that I am a 'straggler', that I have been undecided, and therefore risked being "left out", and also that the environment of the Master would be a community of like-minded people held together by a "a man who is their center of union" (and I know who he is). I also know that there is a monastic-like component to the setting of where this course is held, that seems well represented by this hexagram. But as I said earlier, it rather baffles me that there is no development, and I wonder how that compares to the other, recent reading I have cast a few days ago, described in the fist part. I will be grateful to anyone who feels called to contribute a comment or a reflection that may help me make more clarity, especially in reference to my late question: "What if I waited ... ?".
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Reading for a difficult decision.
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Hexagram 5.1.3>29 vs Hex 5 Unchanging for Dentist
The I Ching never ceases to amaze me when asking about choice and and again about choice B smaller matters.
Many times i get the same Hex with some different lines.
This time when i saw one choice led to 29, i thought for sure to go with the Unchanging one.
I then thought of 5 being "Waiting" and not changing could be not so good as well. And 29 says there can be success if your heart is pure.
The 5.1.3 Dentist is much closer and convenient. They both came up about equal on Yelp reviews.
What say you all?
Many times i get the same Hex with some different lines.
This time when i saw one choice led to 29, i thought for sure to go with the Unchanging one.
I then thought of 5 being "Waiting" and not changing could be not so good as well. And 29 says there can be success if your heart is pure.
The 5.1.3 Dentist is much closer and convenient. They both came up about equal on Yelp reviews.
What say you all?
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How will the situation develop? 29.1.3.6 to 9
I have to say, I got really scared after receiving this answer. Who wouldn't be?
It looks like a pretty big challenge lies ahead of me.
The question was about the future development of the relationship between someone much younger who is also my work colleague.
The fact is that I somehow fell terribly in love, and we have almost no contact.. It is strange, I became "a little bit" obsessed with someone I barely know. His youth plays definitely a role in it. But it is, of course, more complex.
The reading is pretty clear, I would say. I am supposed not to act, stay true to my true self and wait for an answer (liberation) to come from outside. As long as it takes.
Any thoughts on this?
Thank you
It looks like a pretty big challenge lies ahead of me.
The question was about the future development of the relationship between someone much younger who is also my work colleague.
The fact is that I somehow fell terribly in love, and we have almost no contact.. It is strange, I became "a little bit" obsessed with someone I barely know. His youth plays definitely a role in it. But it is, of course, more complex.
The reading is pretty clear, I would say. I am supposed not to act, stay true to my true self and wait for an answer (liberation) to come from outside. As long as it takes.
Any thoughts on this?
Thank you
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Job question 63.1.5 -> 15
Happy solstice everyone!
I'm beginning to mull over finding a new job, one with better pay per time invested, fewer intense/draining responsibilities, and (I hope) a less mercurial supervisor.
At the same time, the job has many good aspects, some unusually good. The hours have a measure of flexibility, no one gets fired for calling in sick or being late... it's just combined with punishingly long and uncompensated hours on salary at certain points of the year. The pay is low and made even lower by the extra hours everyone is supposed to put in during these big seasonal moments.
So I'm nervous about an out-of-the-frying-pan-into-the-fire situation. Otherwise known as "better the devil you know..."
What is the outcome of looking for a new job? 63.1.5 -> 15
15 is usually a sign of auspiciousness for me, or at least being on a solid and correct track in my thinking. 63.1 gives me pause that I might be rushing this, though, and 63.5 seems to very clearly be suggesting humbleness/sincerity/no flashiness is in order. Question I have to figure out—is my current job the more sincere, humble option? I'm leaning towards thinking no, and that with 63.5 Yi is suggesting a much more mundane, quiet job (my current one has a measure of "coolness" about it, by some people's standards, though it's long lost its allure for me...and of course that "cool" factor is supposed to make up for the bad pay and terrible hours) would be beneficial and OK to switch to.
Then I read this recent thread with Moss Elk's suggestions about asking "What about/What is the problem?" as a follow-up to Rosada's issue. So I asked,
"What is the problem of staying?" 18.5 to 57.
Not a fan of getting 18 with this job. It's kind of all 18, all the time (mixed with 54). I am the resident mess cleaner on emotional, organizational, and logistical levels all over the place and with all of my coworkers (most of them men, some are great, but a few of them bring some really lousy, at time borderline harassment-level, gendered behaviors into their dealings with me and my few female coworkers). Even though 18.5 is generally positive about this role (feels like Yi is saying, you will be supported and appreciated...which I guess I mostly am), it just isn't what I want to be doing anymore. It feels stagnating and draining.
"What is the problem with leaving?" 51.1 to 16
Why, yes, the idea is terrifying! I'll be losing stability, benefits (not very good ones, but with Obamacare up in the air it's better than nothing), a place where I usually know what to expect, etc.
Yet at the same time 51.1 shows that the initial terror and shock will lead to good fortune.
Is anyone interested in taking a look at this? These feel like somewhat murky readings to me, not totally organized narratively, so I'm struggling to puzzle them all out.
Also, I definitely plan to look for jobs to see what's out there, but actually applying takes concerted effort, I've found, with lots of hours put in and other things sacrificed to get it done, and I'm trying to decide if now is the time to throw myself into that.
Thanks, all!
I'm beginning to mull over finding a new job, one with better pay per time invested, fewer intense/draining responsibilities, and (I hope) a less mercurial supervisor.
At the same time, the job has many good aspects, some unusually good. The hours have a measure of flexibility, no one gets fired for calling in sick or being late... it's just combined with punishingly long and uncompensated hours on salary at certain points of the year. The pay is low and made even lower by the extra hours everyone is supposed to put in during these big seasonal moments.
So I'm nervous about an out-of-the-frying-pan-into-the-fire situation. Otherwise known as "better the devil you know..."
What is the outcome of looking for a new job? 63.1.5 -> 15
15 is usually a sign of auspiciousness for me, or at least being on a solid and correct track in my thinking. 63.1 gives me pause that I might be rushing this, though, and 63.5 seems to very clearly be suggesting humbleness/sincerity/no flashiness is in order. Question I have to figure out—is my current job the more sincere, humble option? I'm leaning towards thinking no, and that with 63.5 Yi is suggesting a much more mundane, quiet job (my current one has a measure of "coolness" about it, by some people's standards, though it's long lost its allure for me...and of course that "cool" factor is supposed to make up for the bad pay and terrible hours) would be beneficial and OK to switch to.
Then I read this recent thread with Moss Elk's suggestions about asking "What about/What is the problem?" as a follow-up to Rosada's issue. So I asked,
"What is the problem of staying?" 18.5 to 57.
Not a fan of getting 18 with this job. It's kind of all 18, all the time (mixed with 54). I am the resident mess cleaner on emotional, organizational, and logistical levels all over the place and with all of my coworkers (most of them men, some are great, but a few of them bring some really lousy, at time borderline harassment-level, gendered behaviors into their dealings with me and my few female coworkers). Even though 18.5 is generally positive about this role (feels like Yi is saying, you will be supported and appreciated...which I guess I mostly am), it just isn't what I want to be doing anymore. It feels stagnating and draining.
"What is the problem with leaving?" 51.1 to 16
Why, yes, the idea is terrifying! I'll be losing stability, benefits (not very good ones, but with Obamacare up in the air it's better than nothing), a place where I usually know what to expect, etc.
Yet at the same time 51.1 shows that the initial terror and shock will lead to good fortune.
Is anyone interested in taking a look at this? These feel like somewhat murky readings to me, not totally organized narratively, so I'm struggling to puzzle them all out.
Also, I definitely plan to look for jobs to see what's out there, but actually applying takes concerted effort, I've found, with lots of hours put in and other things sacrificed to get it done, and I'm trying to decide if now is the time to throw myself into that.
Thanks, all!
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Will my book be accepted by the publishing company? Hex 31.2.4.5 > 46
Hi everyone. I sent today a book I wrote to a publishing company and I asked the I Ching if the book will be accepted. The answer was hexagram 31.2.4.5 changing to 46. What do you think? Thank you in advance.
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Is there more equal give and take now
Dear All , I had terrible readings about a connection I have with somebody here ) months ago where I was the giver and the other person the taker and I really had to sit up and take stock. . 6 months later I cast to Yi the question : are things on a more equal give and take basis now between xxx and I? Reading 60.5 to 19. I take this literally to be that the measuring is sweet and a very good start and nearing to mean continue as is to grow ??? Am I on the right track with this reading ? Hepzibah xxx merry Christmas to all
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Auspicious lines? Don't ignore the Related hexagram.
Hi all,
Just want to advise people to pay attention (don't ignore the related hex) when you get a few auspicious/desirable lines.
My own experience like this was 42.2.5 (41)
The lines looked good to proceed with something,
but in the end, I had to let go (41) of it.
(A creative business opportunity.)
Here is one from a friend:
He was actively Dating around, going out with four different women occassionally. He asked about one of them, something like:
Is she good for me?
His reading was 19.2.4 (51)
The lines looked great.
Two weeks after this reading he was shocked (51)to find out that she was a severe alcoholic who wasn't being forthright about it.
In fact she was driving drunk and ran over two men, seriously injuring them, requiring hospitalization.
He hasn't heard from her since, only had contact with her alcoholics anonymous sponser when he tried to call her.
So, look at the whole reading!
:bows:
Just want to advise people to pay attention (don't ignore the related hex) when you get a few auspicious/desirable lines.
My own experience like this was 42.2.5 (41)
The lines looked good to proceed with something,
but in the end, I had to let go (41) of it.
(A creative business opportunity.)
Here is one from a friend:
He was actively Dating around, going out with four different women occassionally. He asked about one of them, something like:
Is she good for me?
His reading was 19.2.4 (51)
The lines looked great.
Two weeks after this reading he was shocked (51)to find out that she was a severe alcoholic who wasn't being forthright about it.
In fact she was driving drunk and ran over two men, seriously injuring them, requiring hospitalization.
He hasn't heard from her since, only had contact with her alcoholics anonymous sponser when he tried to call her.
So, look at the whole reading!
:bows:
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Why can't I find someone 6.4.6 to 29
During the last many years I only had bad luck regarding love. Somehow, I didn't share mutual feelings for a very long time- either they weren't at all interested in me, either too little and got ourselves in weird situation, either I didn't like the men that liked me. The situation leaves me reallt disappointed and depressed. I am a nice pleasant girl, it's like I don't understand why is this happening, especially because I really need someone in my life.
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Hex 46.5.6 to 32
I asked what i needed to know about X?
I am unsure of the interpretation. Line 6 means he is stubborn and difficult. Can i get your insights please.
I am unsure of the interpretation. Line 6 means he is stubborn and difficult. Can i get your insights please.
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Should I I spend the NYE with her? Hexagram 31 unchanging
I am terribly sorry for the bad spacing in this post. I will try writing to admin or change the browser in the future.
Merry Christmas to all!!
Here's the story. The girl from my work, who is young and rather inexperienced yet (shes 24, I'm 35) gave me hints that she won't have anyone to spend NYE with. This is the girl who due to her lack of experience allowed to be surrounded with some rather negative/toxic people. I wrote about her some time before- she really reminds me of myself when I was her age. Same false mask worn for social situations and a lot of anger under the surface (her father left the family when she was a teen, she was lacking a strong father figure). She is still not fully over a split with her previous boyfriend and from what I know it was a rather weak relationship- he was weak, childish and there were a lot of arguments and jealously (oh, the magic of youth! ;) )
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She is pisces and I am scorpio and even that we have problems with communication sometimes, theres that metaphysical connection between us. I feel her very well on that 'energetic' level, much more than other people somehow. I am somehow attracted to her sexually too. Now the hard part- she reminds me of my mother. Some of her face characteristics point towards this. And my mother is toxic, so I should probably abstain from anyone reminding me of her on some subconscious level... Also, the fact a 24 yo suddenly doesnt have anyone to spend NYE with is rather appealing. Where are her dozens of colleagues? You know, thats how I think about it.I asked whether I should spend the NYE with her? Got
Hexagram 31 unchanging
I asked if I will be spending it with her, should I escalate sexually? Got
Hexagram 23 unchanging
I also asked whether I should rather NOT spend it with her? (and for example go to my friends) Got
Hexagram 31.1.3>17
Those are interesting results. Somehow, I sense that every time I consider any sort of intimate/sexual relation with her, I am getting a big 'no, no!' from the I Ching. What are your views on this?
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Merry Christmas to all!!
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Hexagram 31 unchanging
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Hexagram 23 unchanging
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Hexagram 31.1.3>17
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Mery X-Mass
Hi,
When Ansgar came here, as told by the monk - I think his name was Rimbaud or something like - to Denmark in the ninth century AD - the viking's laughs when those roman/german conquestor's cut-off their heads saying: "I will laugh on Your god" and die rather than bow upon him.....
It's not common to folk's what I tell here but thats what happened when Denmark and the rest of the Northern countries was christened in the tenht' centuries AD.
Merry X-Mass
Sorry for my english
When Ansgar came here, as told by the monk - I think his name was Rimbaud or something like - to Denmark in the ninth century AD - the viking's laughs when those roman/german conquestor's cut-off their heads saying: "I will laugh on Your god" and die rather than bow upon him.....
It's not common to folk's what I tell here but thats what happened when Denmark and the rest of the Northern countries was christened in the tenht' centuries AD.
Merry X-Mass
Sorry for my english
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Saturn into Capricorn
The planet Saturn entered it's home sign Capricorn yesterday. You might want to make a note of where you are, what you're doing now as a future reference. You can google Saturn into Capricorn and get ideas of how this might manifest.
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Zhu Xis' Yixue Qimeng
Zhu Xis' Yixue Qimeng (Introduction to the Study of the Yi) and related books are available at the translators' site: http://www2.kenyon.edu/Depts/Religio...r/writings.htm
I think it is the famous book where the yarrow stalk method is first mentioned.
I think it is the famous book where the yarrow stalk method is first mentioned.
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Return? 19.2>24
I asked "what can I do to have him back?"
I got 19.2>24
Looks good but...
Any insights would be appreciated
Thank you all
Elena
I got 19.2>24
Looks good but...
Any insights would be appreciated
Thank you all
Elena
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Hexagran 46.4.5.6 - Relationship Troubles
Hello everyone,I have been having relationship problems with my girlfriend. I feel that I'm going to lose her and I don't want to let that happen. I want to do everything possible to save our relationships because I truly love her. I asked the I-ching: How can I make my significant other fall in love with me again?I received 46.4.5.6>44... I'm desperate and I dont know how to interpret this reading. Please help.
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How to deal with a difficult relationship? Hexagram 21.1.2.4->4
I have a rather difficult relation with my older brother who is very opinionated, inflexible and harsh. At the same time he’s also quite spiritual. He prays and meditates and believes in God. We were estranged in the past but I decided to let him back in my life. Suddenly, about 1.5 years ago he became suddenly very rude and abusive during our conversation. I made the decision to break off our social relationship and to just pray for him. This year he called me on my birthday and we agreed to be in contact again.
I set the condition that he had to « play nice » and not be abusive anymore.
Once again, in another conversation, , he suddenly became extremely agitated and made very harsh statements and accusations. He went out of his way to be extremely hurtful and destructive. He then abruptly hung up.
Suddenly he called me on December 23 if this year, acting as though nothing had occurred. When I brought up the past incident, he refused to apologize or retract his hurtful statements. He then made more hurtful, insulting comments and resorted to twisted, specious logic to rationalize why I was the guilty party. I told him that I refuse to be in dysfunctional, abusive or codependent relationships.
He then hung up once again. I sent him a text applauding the courage he showed in contacting me, but also saying that we just can’t afford anymore dysfunction in our lives.
Well, he never wrote back. I’ve been wondering how to handle this situation.
I have no real family. This mean brother is the closest I get to having a loved one. (Except 1 other person)
I asked the YJ « What kind of person am I dealing with here? »
Hexagram 21.1.2.4–>4
“How should I deal with X?”
20.4.5.6–>16
For me Hexagram 21 is either punishment or biting through opposition to overcome obstacles which separate.
As for Hexagram 20, I always thought it meant that you were being observed, that you were an example to others, or that you need to seek and look around you for answer to your query.
I can’t make these interpretations apply here.
Anyone care to comment?
I set the condition that he had to « play nice » and not be abusive anymore.
Once again, in another conversation, , he suddenly became extremely agitated and made very harsh statements and accusations. He went out of his way to be extremely hurtful and destructive. He then abruptly hung up.
Suddenly he called me on December 23 if this year, acting as though nothing had occurred. When I brought up the past incident, he refused to apologize or retract his hurtful statements. He then made more hurtful, insulting comments and resorted to twisted, specious logic to rationalize why I was the guilty party. I told him that I refuse to be in dysfunctional, abusive or codependent relationships.
He then hung up once again. I sent him a text applauding the courage he showed in contacting me, but also saying that we just can’t afford anymore dysfunction in our lives.
Well, he never wrote back. I’ve been wondering how to handle this situation.
I have no real family. This mean brother is the closest I get to having a loved one. (Except 1 other person)
I asked the YJ « What kind of person am I dealing with here? »
Hexagram 21.1.2.4–>4
“How should I deal with X?”
20.4.5.6–>16
For me Hexagram 21 is either punishment or biting through opposition to overcome obstacles which separate.
As for Hexagram 20, I always thought it meant that you were being observed, that you were an example to others, or that you need to seek and look around you for answer to your query.
I can’t make these interpretations apply here.
Anyone care to comment?
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Risk of war with North Korea: 62.5.6 -> 33
Hi all,
During the run-up to the US election in 2016, I realized fairly early on (with a sinking feeling) that despite what the polls said, Clinton's chances were dire; the reason was I asked Yi several different questions on the matter, and the narrative was one of damage and shock for Clinton, shock and success for Trump. I know there was some debate on here around how much we can take these seriously, and whether or not they merely reflect personal bias/personal involvement. But regardless Yi told me something I didn't want to hear and that went against the dominant media and social take on the odds at the time, and Yi was right.
Recently I've been extremely anxious about an accidental or intentional conflict with North Korea. I hear the drumbeats of war starting up and it is deeply worrisome (to me).
Earlier this year I asked a few different questions that put my mind at ease about it for 2017 (I can try to find my notes later), but now I've asked about 2018:
Can you give me a picture of the us and the prospects of war with NK in 2018?
Yi replied: 62.5.6 -> 33.
Ouch!
I'm hoping 33 means that the conflict goes into retreat before it reaches the point of warfare, but the excesses and arrogance of line 6, which lead to disaster, are alarming. The imagery of line 5 is also dismayinga prince (Kim? he is literally like royalty; or it could describe Trump) shoots an arrow and hits something in a cave. If Yi is being extremely literal (wouldn't be the first time!), North Korea stores its weaponry and nuclear development facilities in caves.
Thoughts, anyone?
During the run-up to the US election in 2016, I realized fairly early on (with a sinking feeling) that despite what the polls said, Clinton's chances were dire; the reason was I asked Yi several different questions on the matter, and the narrative was one of damage and shock for Clinton, shock and success for Trump. I know there was some debate on here around how much we can take these seriously, and whether or not they merely reflect personal bias/personal involvement. But regardless Yi told me something I didn't want to hear and that went against the dominant media and social take on the odds at the time, and Yi was right.
Recently I've been extremely anxious about an accidental or intentional conflict with North Korea. I hear the drumbeats of war starting up and it is deeply worrisome (to me).
Earlier this year I asked a few different questions that put my mind at ease about it for 2017 (I can try to find my notes later), but now I've asked about 2018:
Can you give me a picture of the us and the prospects of war with NK in 2018?
Yi replied: 62.5.6 -> 33.
Ouch!
I'm hoping 33 means that the conflict goes into retreat before it reaches the point of warfare, but the excesses and arrogance of line 6, which lead to disaster, are alarming. The imagery of line 5 is also dismayinga prince (Kim? he is literally like royalty; or it could describe Trump) shoots an arrow and hits something in a cave. If Yi is being extremely literal (wouldn't be the first time!), North Korea stores its weaponry and nuclear development facilities in caves.
Thoughts, anyone?
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What Does He Want?
Hi all,
I feel silly even posting this reading, but I'm trying to wrap my head around something. I recently had an ex reach out to me to "add me" on Facebook. I haven't talked to him in awhile, and to be honest I was finally, finally getting over him. It's been years. I kind of feel like no contact has probably been the best thing for us. But I made the mistake of creeping on his profile a little, and it seems like he has a girlfriend and everything. Which for some reason infuriates me more. Like LEAVE ME ALONE DUDE!! Ugh. Anyway, I'm just a little perplexed. The last time he came back into my life it was because he was newly single. I just don't understand why he is bothering me. I'm have half a mind to block him. I asked the IChing a couple of questions for clarity..
Why did he add me?
21. 4
What does he want from me?
64.6
I don't really get either of them except that maybe 21 is just saying to break through to creating more solid boundaries with him? Maybe I should block him? And the second casting I'm wondering if it is just referring to his act as spontaneous. Maybe he was drunk? I really shouldn't have looked at his profile, it was just that sad thing where you remember for a second that person that you used to love, and you're like "Hi!" But it was instantly hurtful to look, as I saw that the new girlfriend has met his mother (he would never introduce me) and is riding on his boat. He told me "no girls allowed." He was such a jerk to me. It just makes me mad that he even has the audacity to be happy!
UGHH.
Any insights are appreciated :bows:
I feel silly even posting this reading, but I'm trying to wrap my head around something. I recently had an ex reach out to me to "add me" on Facebook. I haven't talked to him in awhile, and to be honest I was finally, finally getting over him. It's been years. I kind of feel like no contact has probably been the best thing for us. But I made the mistake of creeping on his profile a little, and it seems like he has a girlfriend and everything. Which for some reason infuriates me more. Like LEAVE ME ALONE DUDE!! Ugh. Anyway, I'm just a little perplexed. The last time he came back into my life it was because he was newly single. I just don't understand why he is bothering me. I'm have half a mind to block him. I asked the IChing a couple of questions for clarity..
Why did he add me?
21. 4
What does he want from me?
64.6
I don't really get either of them except that maybe 21 is just saying to break through to creating more solid boundaries with him? Maybe I should block him? And the second casting I'm wondering if it is just referring to his act as spontaneous. Maybe he was drunk? I really shouldn't have looked at his profile, it was just that sad thing where you remember for a second that person that you used to love, and you're like "Hi!" But it was instantly hurtful to look, as I saw that the new girlfriend has met his mother (he would never introduce me) and is riding on his boat. He told me "no girls allowed." He was such a jerk to me. It just makes me mad that he even has the audacity to be happy!
UGHH.
Any insights are appreciated :bows:
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Am I ready for I Ching?
Hi, I've been using I Ching for some months (so I am quite a newbie) and I Ching answers sometimes really distress me. For example, I would ask: "Are (insert name) and I meant to be in a serious relationship?" And the answer would be a clear no or "Am I going to achieve my dreams?" and the answer would be no again. It gives me a sense of hopelesness and I hesitate to do what I would have done if I hadn't know the answer or to plainly give up. I also ask myself if the I Ching is testing me in order to know how willing I am to achieve my dreams (or whatever I asked for) or if it is trying to carry me to my destiny (even if it is a destiny I do not like). Does this mean that I am not ready to use I ching, not wise enough and I should stop using it? Does anyone ever feel the same? ANy thoughts on that?Thank you in advance,H.
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Schuyler Cammann Article Wanted
Hi,
Back in 2008, there was a long and interesting thread here on Former Heaven and Later Heaven Origin (https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...hp/t-3833.html), in the course of which Sparhawk and Lienshan referred to some journal articles by Schuyler Cammann that sound interesting. I was able to get copies of some of these articles online and through interlibrary loan, but was not able to acquire the last and most important:
The Origin of the Trigram Circles in Ancient China,
Schuyler Cammann,
Bulletin of the Museum of Far Eastern Antiquities, No.62, 1990
Does anyone have a copy they could share, or any information about how I could get ahold of this? I have some related articles by Cammann and Bent Nielsen that I could trade.
Thanks!
Back in 2008, there was a long and interesting thread here on Former Heaven and Later Heaven Origin (https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...hp/t-3833.html), in the course of which Sparhawk and Lienshan referred to some journal articles by Schuyler Cammann that sound interesting. I was able to get copies of some of these articles online and through interlibrary loan, but was not able to acquire the last and most important:
The Origin of the Trigram Circles in Ancient China,
Schuyler Cammann,
Bulletin of the Museum of Far Eastern Antiquities, No.62, 1990
Does anyone have a copy they could share, or any information about how I could get ahold of this? I have some related articles by Cammann and Bent Nielsen that I could trade.
Thanks!
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