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16.4.6 > 23 true feelings or projection??!

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Hi all, I am new to the forum-- hello, I am very happy to be a part of this community. I haven't commented on other's readings not out of lack of interest but just that I don't feel very confident of my interpretations...I will gain confidence and write more over time!I am the midst of this dragged-out attraction with a coworker which has been really an emotional whammy. We have a friendship but I can't tell if he is (occasionally) flirting with me? I also have surprisingly strong feeling for him-- strong for over 6 months now-- and I should have let this whole thing go ages ago except that I can't seem to diminish my feelings. Anyway, so I asked the oracle for the clarification-- Is there real love between x and I or just a projection? [pardon the phrase 'real love' which is so cheesy, but that was my literal question so I feel obliged to write it here...].So I cast 16.4.6 changing to 23. My assessment of this is..."Mostly what is between us is projection, and it is my job to strip away what is not needed/ projection to see if there is anything real there". Which makes perfect sense because, given that I don't really know him, the "love" feeling I feel can really only be projection right?But the thing that throws me are the specifics of the changing lines... 4 and 6Line 4'Source of enthusiasm.Great possessions gained.Do not doubt.Partners are gathered together as a hair clasp gathers hair.'Line 6'Enthusiasm in the dark.Results bring a change of heart,No mistake.'So line 6 I would interpret as...enthusiasm (or "projection") without seeing...is too strong, will [eventually] be balanced by a change in the other direction...By line 4 is making me hopeful with what I fear is a false hope? I'd love to hear any thoughts on this line or my interpretation as a whole. Thank you!!

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