There is this guy I have been posting about. Long story short, I went at him one night, we didn't have sex as I was somehow reticent but overall felt very good. In the morning I felt a change in his attitude-he was suddenly cold. Didn't hear from him for weeks, I asked him what is happening and he didn't even respond (although he was bragging about how direct he is in general with people- he could have been sincere and we would move on). I found out he is with someone after a few weeks (which hurts like hell, he said he didn't want a relationship because it takes time etc and he's very busy with work; I said that I think when he meets the right person, he would not think like that anymore, and he said no because it's something he decided, to take care of his career first). It seemed as if we were going to have just a sexual relationship, and I would have been ok with that. He even asked me this. And then..nothing. At work he acts just like a coworker-nice but distant. I am so hurt and confused, I asked a bunch of questions to try to understand a bit better. I could really use your wisdom and patience.
What does he feel for her? 15.2 to 46
What does he feel for me? 62.3 to 16
What is the reason he dumped me right away? 2 unchanging
Why didn't he respond to me? 8.3.6 to 53
What are the chances I hurt his ego? 58.2.4.6 to 42
Is everything over between me and him? 14.2.3 to 21
What is the overall picture of all this? If I really didn't matter to him at all, he found this girl and he is happy now.. I need to hear where that reflects in the readings.
What does he feel for her? 15.2 to 46
What does he feel for me? 62.3 to 16
What is the reason he dumped me right away? 2 unchanging
Why didn't he respond to me? 8.3.6 to 53
What are the chances I hurt his ego? 58.2.4.6 to 42
Is everything over between me and him? 14.2.3 to 21
What is the overall picture of all this? If I really didn't matter to him at all, he found this girl and he is happy now.. I need to hear where that reflects in the readings.