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Help for School choice

July 25, 2017, 2:40 am
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Dear all,

I come to you for advice. I am faced with a very important choice for my 17 year old son. In high school he has been a disaster so far (he is dyslexic, dysgraphic and with attention deficit disorder (without hyperactivity)).
Last year I changed him school and improvements have been big and reassuring. Two weeks ago this school closed forever. So I had to hunt for a new school and now I am down to the final two school and the responsibility of possibly making the wrong choice for him is overwhelming.
So I asked the yi two questions:
1. What to I need to know about school A in relation to their capacity of helping my son? 8.2>29
School B? 37.4.5.6>55
2. What will be the consequences on my son's chances to successfully finish high school if I choose school A? 47.5-40
School B? 64.3>50.

As more background information: school A is existing since 15 years, it is close to home and it is more or less traditional teaching with extra support, school B is a startup made from some of the teachers left unemployed by the closing of the previous school so they already taught my son last year, they will try a more innovative approach to teaching ... but will they succeed?

Would you be so kind to help me make sense of what the Yi is trying to tell me? At first look School B seems what the Yi suggest me being the more appropriate, but the little fox soaking his tail scares me to bits.

Thank you in advance for understanding an anxious mother and for your help.

Best,
M*
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Why did it happen? 35.3,5,6 31

July 25, 2017, 3:45 am
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Dear all,I'm nes in this forum but I have a very important issue to ask Ching. Recently I had a missed abortion after 7 weeks of pregnancy and I'm very sad...I asked Ching "why did it happen?", even if I know that this very common, especially at my age 39.I obtained 35.3,5,6 --> 31.This answer surprised me a lot...it's sound good but it's difficult for me to relate it to the question.Do you have any suggestions?Thank you for your support
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Growth potential for relationship

July 25, 2017, 9:37 pm
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I would like some help interpreting a reading. I asked what would happen if I move in with a close friend. I like my current housing situation but the couple I live with is pregnant and could really use the space. When I told my friend I thought I should offer to move out, she mentioned the room in her house that will soon be available. Here is the background of our relationship: we initially met in a romantic context but have been friends for several years, sometimes close, other times distant. This year it felt like we were more dating than anything but I was a bit afraid to go anywhere with it (she was not). I shine so brightly in her eyes and that self is still a bit scary to me, and I wonder if she mistakes my reserve for rejection. Well, this friend is getting older and she would really like to have someone to settle down and have kids with (like 5 years ago), but her relationships don't work out. Last year she almost out of the blue asked me if I would raise a kid with her, and I demurred. Now she is actively trying to conceive on her own. I would enjoy living with her, but I don't know if I necessarily want to rent out a room in her house, to bring the element of money into our relationship (also it's quite a bit more expensive than my current situation for quite a bit less). IDK anything about the romantic or longevity potential of our relationship at this point, but I do care about her.

The hexagram I cast was 28.1.5 > 34. 28 seems to say that the situation is flawed, and it is best to move. The fifth line is interesting! "An old woman gets a young husband. No blame, no praise." I am certainly not young (or male), but I am several years younger than my friend and she has hinted at wanting a wife.

A couple months ago I asked about this relationship and received 48.2.5 > 15. 48 is The Well, it says that we are not taking advantage of the depth that is available. I feel like I have always been searching and searching for something, undetermined (e.g. should I pursue this or that career, schooling, location, etc.). Around the time I received this reading I realized it could be so much easier if I just eased into being myself, if I stopped struggling and wanting so much and started being happy with everything I have. And that relaxation brought such immense happiness to my life and things felt like they were falling right into place. But I feel myself slipping into my old habits, wasting time not drawing on the depth of love and wisdom that is available to me. My relationship with my friend has always been a bit superficial because I'm just not diving into it.

So, woo, that is a lot! Any insight?
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Hex 59.5 to 4: Please show me what influences are active in my lovelife at this time?

July 26, 2017, 2:29 am
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Hi good folks

A quick background.

I am single since October '16, after a long-term relationship with an addict. It took a lot of courage on my part to break of the relationship and for a long time I wasn't interested in other men at all. I needed time to heal and find my self again. It took me a while but lately I have started enjoying my social life again. I feel like I am blossoming after years of isolation and low self esteem. I had intense encounters with two different men in the time of a month. Despite enjoying all this sudden attention immensely these encounters triggered a longing for something more meaningful then what I experienced with these men.

I accept my single status and understand this is necessary for me right now. At the same time I feel a deep longing for a meaningful connection. In the mean time I don't want to deny myself the pleasure of enjoying my single life to the fullest. This change in my emotional life has happened quite forcefully and sudden. I am trying to get a deeper understanding of what is happening to me right now.

So I asked Yi
Hex 59.5 to 4: Please show me what influences are active in my lovelife at this time?

In a thread about this line on the forum I found a useful comment from Martin:
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I think that in line 5 the self (the king) discovers that dispersion is what he or she really wants or that dispersing is the best thing to do in this situation.
It becomes his or her decision instead of something that more or less just happens to him or her.
Consequently the self assumes full responsibility for the dispersion, makes it his or her 'cause', and takes the lead in the process.
This is a change of attitude.
It could be me realizing my true desire for a deeper connection but at the same time accepting what is happening to me and taking responsibility for it. This is a change of attitude for me, especially when I think of my younger days when I was single. I felt much more uncertain about romantic interests. I feel like I am growing as a woman, still challenged but more accepting and less desperate then I used to be.

Still, other insights are very welcome, as always :D
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21.5 and food for good mood

July 26, 2017, 7:06 am
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Hi! Just a warning, this post might not be safe for vegetarians!

I started weight training last month, and I've been feeling lightheaded these past few sessions. My normal diet has for a long time been a low-carb, chicken/fish and veggie combo. Last night though I gave in to a craving for pig's blood stew on rice, and this morning I woke up with the BEST mood ever.

So the post-training lightheadedness and post-meat good mood got me thinking that I need to add some red meat and carbs to my diet. However, earlier this evening, I felt my mood crashing, right before I was about to set out to get myself some foodstuff.

I asked, "Why do I feel like this?" and got 21.5 over at ichingonline.net, which said:
"Biting into dried meat and striking the golden arrowhead.
Keeping to this perilous course will result in unexpected reward."

Because I was feeling lethargic, I was planning to check out a particular store nearby, which I never visit. "Unexpected reward" made me get out of bed and put on my trousers and shoes right away. My hunch was right - to my delight, the store had grass-fed Aussie beef and frozen veggies!

On the way back home, I pondered on how 21.5 could have possibly answered my question directly. Dried lean meat and yellow gold? My first reaction was, oh, it's a B-complex and iron deficiency. Which makes sense, considering my current diet and sudden increase in physical activity. Any other thoughts?

Of course I will need to ask my trainer too for nutrition tips on my next session! Anyway, I hope anyone reading this has found it somewhat useful and interesting!
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Move to San Francisco from NY? Hexagram 13

July 26, 2017, 10:53 am
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Should i consider taking a job with this tech company in San Francisco? Hexagram 13

I am not sure what an unchanging hexagram as "Friendship" has to do here. Perhaps, I make friends?

How should I handle this situation with the recruiter? Hexagram 15.1 to Hexagram 36

I suppose this says I should be modest and remove my cloud perception (hex 36)? I am not too excited about the position and having to move there, but a large company could give me a step up. Not sure if it is the right move. I am almost inclined to express my interest in the role, and ask if there is the possibility of anything opening up in New York as opposed to SF.

What will happen? Hexagram 29.4.6 to Hexagram 6

This looks bad. Line 6 here mentions I miss my proper course and hexagram 6 says I create a conflict with the internal recruiter and chances working there due to indecision or bad interviewing?
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Will I find a job in NY? Hex 34.2.4.5 > Hex 63

July 26, 2017, 11:29 am
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It's been over +3 months since I left my job at my last company and I am getting concerned as the gap widens I might make things more difficult for myself to find my next opportunity. So I asked the i-ching:

Will I find a job in the NY region or will I have to move? Received hexagram 34.2.4.5. to 63

Hexagram 34 line 2 and 4 says to persevere, but then line 5 says to "let my goat" so in a sense stop clinging to a perception or what I think should happen. Am i right in reading this?
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Relationship; What's the state of their union HEX 22 .1 > 52

July 26, 2017, 3:32 pm
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Hexagram 22 Piline 1 changing to >Hexagram 52 Kên This is in regards to an ex of mine and I want insight into the state of his union (relationship) with the woman he's currently with (or was) .... I am unsure as if they are still together, or broken up. Why?This matters to me because he was reaching out to me for several months, but when I decided to reach out I then I found out he was living with someone. We stop talking and I am unsure as to why he had reached out so much, or if they are even together as I think. There is a string that's still there between us, but life is complex. Hexagram 22 speaks about looking beyond the obvious, the externalI see it as to whatever relationship he has, there is some superficiality in it and the need to look beyond the material plane.Line 1 Changing: "Honoring his feet, he leaves his carriage to walk." Leaving behind past blockages and burdens, also expectations and taking it on his own to evaluate thingsChanging to Hexagram 52 MountainStillness.... so I would say the answer is YES, they are still unionized, in a relationship, in a union together as lovers. But analyzing beyond their relationship, a moment of instrospection. What's your experience?
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Relationship; What's the state of their union Hexagram 55 unchanging

July 26, 2017, 3:40 pm
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Ok sorry, I had posted previously but I am not able to edit the last one, it was wrong. That was for his end. This one is for their "union" (both)are they still together (union) if so advice, or not. This is an ex, and we currently are not talking and I wanted insight onto his relationship with the woman he was with (or is).He cannot clarify this with me since we currently don't talk, but it's important to me to decide what I should do aboutmy future in this situation. I see this as lots of emotions going on, for each of them, going through a phase where everything is revolving and moving emotionally.
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5.4>43 about Going to a Meeting Tonight

July 26, 2017, 4:00 pm
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Greetings,

I asked I Ching for guidance with whether or not I should attend a scheduled homeowners' association meeting tonight and received 5.4>43. Have to admit that this has flummoxed me a bit.

Am I "waiting in blood" (Wilhelm on line 4) if I refrain from attending the meeting?

Or am I wise to "withdraw from engagement with the enemy" (Legge in line 4) by declining to attend the meeting?

Meeting scheduled to start in less than 3 hours and would love an opinion on this reading if anyone has a moment before or after that time frame. Not really sure what I'm going to do. I have no reason to expect any problems at this meeting but it does involve a piece of rental property on which I have fallen behind on mortgage payments. Also, co-buyer of property is an ex-boyfriend whose girlfriend has long been pressuring him to end any involvement with me. However, those two initiated a quitclaim deed on property and somehow failed to file it successfully. I don't expect that either one of them will attend meeting or that they even know about it since I have been managing the property on my own for years. Thanks in advance for any help.
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8.3.4.5>31 What Are the Effects of Prayer?

July 26, 2017, 10:29 pm
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Hello again.

So with my mom's cancer under control (so far), my husband and I have been focusing on tackling the lack of employment that is crushing us. My husband had a short term assignment through a temp agency that really helped us cover our expenses, unfortunately the job ended abruptly. He has applied for lots of jobs and gone on several interviews, but they always lead to dead ends despite the recruiter being very enthusiastic about hiring my husband, invariably the CEO has other ideas and either eliminates the open position, or demands to see more candidates.

It's really hard for me to not feel angry over this.

I've begun praying to saints. I do 5 novenas a day. So out of curiosity I asked the I ching what the affect of praying these novenas is.

The answer was 8.3.4.5>31 which is pretty straightforward and clear.

Line 3 surprised me though, I wouldn't think of that line being appropriate in this context.

Anyway, I just wanted to share this in case anyone would find it interesting.
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Advice and consequences

July 27, 2017, 5:46 am
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Hi all,

I am not too sure how many of you follow astrology, but just to let you know that I am currently experiencing Saturn transiting my 7th house and it is causing me all sorts of problems that I am attempting to sort through (although extremely emotional and tricky). They say after this transit, you're supposed to be "rewarded" or see the benefits later... I cannot right now lol. I. really. cannot. Anyway, onto the reading:

After meeting up with my ex and it all becoming rather emotional (I found out that he is now seeing someone else), I sent him a text message explaining how hurt/upset I felt. He suggested that we continue a conversation in person this weekend, but I am not sure if I am feeling up to it. I asked the iChing:

Further to the messages that I sent the other day, how should I handle things with X? Answer: Hexagram 21.3.4.5 > 56

I guess Hexagram 21 describes where I am at the moment. I am in a situation where I have bitten through the meat and obtained the truth about his romantic status. However, now... I have to digest it and that is likely to be the most difficult part. I've tried my best to "change" things and they haven't worked in the way that I have envisioned intended. I can admit that.

Line 3 (according to Wing): You lack sufficient power and authority to bring about Reform. Your attempts meet with indifference, and you may feel humiliated at your ineffective actions. Yet Reform is necessary, and therefore your endeavors are justified.

Line 4 (according to Wing): The task facing you is indeed difficult. That which you must overcome is in a powerful position. Be firm and persevering once you begin. Good results come only by being alert and exercising continuous effort.

I think Line 6 predicts the future if I do not heed the warnings or advice giving in previous lines.

Line 6 (according to Wing): A person who cannot recognize his own shortcomings will drift farther and farther from the path. A person who is no longer on the path cannot understand the warnings of others. The original text states: "There will be evil.”

Lines 3, 4 (and 6) leading to Hexagram 36 suggest to me that I have indeed been wounded. And it is time for me to "hide" my brilliance. To let my goodness shine, even though it is not overt or in a way where I am at the forefront of my ex's life. Just to keep going and taking care of myself.

I asked a follow up question.

If I follow the advice provided in the first hexagram, how are things likely to develop between us? Answer: Hexagram 12.5.6 > 16

Again, I think Hexagram 12 is highlighting the situation that the relationship is currently in. There is a lack of communication. Progress is obstructed. We are in essence "divorced" although we weren't married (I appreciate that lol).

Line 5 (according to Wing): A sweeping change for the better is indicated. Things can improve and progress. Yet this is the very time to feel cautious and reserved. With such an attitude your success is doubly insured and a strong foundation is established for the new times.

Line 6 (according to Wing): The opportunity to change a situation from Stagnation to progress is at hand. It will not happen of its own accord. A strong and continuing sense of purpose is necessary to achieve and maintain the greatest possible heights of success. Although I note that Siu says that this progress may not last long.

The second hexagram suggests that if I properly integrate the advice provided in the first hexagram, things may improve for us and our relationship. I just wanted to know if I have interpreted the advice given the first hexagram correctly?

I am not sure if I am going to accept the invitation to see him on Saturday or even push for it. I guess, I really want to follow iChing's advice on how to handle things. I think I will make a decision from there.

Your comments, are very welcome. Be gentle though eh? lol x
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Would it make me happy to maintain this friendship, or break it off? 46.5 > 48

July 27, 2017, 4:32 pm
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I have a friendship of a few years with someone whom I am considering cutting ties with. We get along excellently, make each other laugh, have similar interests - all the ingredients for a good friendship, but there is a catch: We have repressed romantic feelings for each other that have leaked out every now and then, and we are unable to address them openly and honestly for numerous reasons.

At this time we are unable to be together. I wrestled with keeping the friendship anyway, for its own sake - advice given me by other people I know - but over and over again I find myself unsure of what I really want. I want to make a decision that makes me happy in the long term, so I consulted the Yi, and got 46.5 > 48.

I've been doing some research, but I'd love it if others shared their opinions on how these hexagrams relate to my situation.
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Hexagram 33.3.5>35

July 27, 2017, 4:51 pm
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I live in accommodation that has a funny dynamic to it that I wasn't told about before I moved in but it's either put up and shut up or move out. No contract.
The background is the landlord comes and stays with his mistress who has a young crying baby - when they are not here the other housemate and I are fine together and it's not a bad place to be living, not perfect, but it's ok.
I have been looking for another place to move to but they're few and far between in this area and I wish to stay living in this area.

In the month of August the mistress and the baby are coming to stay and then a few weeks after that the mistress, the baby and the landlord are coming to stay.....this means very little sleep and personal space for me.

What do I need to know about the upcoming dynamics in my home

33.3.5>35

Does retreat mean they're not coming, I'm actually moving before they get here or..... I just need to keep myself to myself and all will progress nicely....well for them it will.

Please show me the way to deal with frustrating situation

Hexagram 28.2.3.4>8

Looks like there's nothing I can do but just put up with it.
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43.4.5.6>26 Bit confused

July 28, 2017, 12:10 am
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Hi

I just did my weekly reading and asked what I need to know about my business this up and coming week.

I received 43.4.5.6>26, my business is going really well and making progress. I am aware i still have a way to go, however I am not sure what the advice is here. Is it a warning of over confidence?
Currently its got me stumped

Steve
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How many I-Ching books should I keep?

July 28, 2017, 10:24 pm
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I have about 40 I-Ching books, and I'm needing to downsize everything in my large library of around 3,000 books. There are times when I go many months without using any I-Ching books, and then I reenter that universe and enjoy the options I have. Part of me thinks I should be satisfied with just 3 to 6 I-Ching books, but other times I can't see how to downsize to less than 25.

Does anyone else struggle with this? I'm not a scholar, but I enjoy occasionally dipping into Rutt or Wang-Bi. And then once in a while I get curious about what Carol Anthony has to say. And the next thing I know I'm back up to at least 25 books.

I'd love to hear any suggestions for approaching my dilemma.
Many thanks.

Bill
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Hexagram 14.2.3>21

July 29, 2017, 12:24 am
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What point is there in applying for this rental

Hexagram 14.2.3>21

Hexagram 14 - I would become in possession of a home for myself although because it's a rental I would only be a 'guest' for as long as the contract states. It's also a chance to have abundant space for myself which will allow me to be creative with my new projects in sewing and renovating furniture.

Line 2 - definitely literally a wagon needed to carry my possessions with the direction being my new home which will also mean I'm supported by others to get there but also supported by the real estate who will see I have the funds to pay for this rental which is a far greater responsibility than my present agreement in my accommodation.

Line 3 - I'm not so sure about in terms of helping another except possibly a mother of some children I looked after during the school holidays in vacation care, I happened to run into her when I was viewing the rental and she mentioned she may need my help sometimes with looking after her girls.....but I kinda see this line as being more than that.

Hexagram 21 - feels to me like I'm biting through to getting my needs met.
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49 1.3.4 > 8 Should I go?

July 29, 2017, 2:04 am
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Hello everyone.

I asked Iching one question.

Q: Should I go Greenwish university?

Answer: got hex 49 1.3.4 changing to hex 8.

LiSe version

Hex 49 - Revolution

Line 1 - Bind them using yellow cattle's hide.
I assume change is possible.

Line 3 - Demand (or effectuate) that things be set right:*pitfall. Determination: danger. When talk of skinning has gone round three times, it*has truth.

If my plan is sure and act correctly without listening to others' reasons, my aim will come true. Determination will be danger.

Line 4 - regrets disappear. He*has truth*in changing the mandate.*Auspicious.

I have to follow my own believe and motivation.

I think......
The answer Yi gave me is Yes.
I should go to that university.

Highly appreciate very much if you let me know
Your perception on the hexagram I got (49) too.
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34 3.4.5 > 60 (how to?)

July 29, 2017, 6:28 am
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Hey guys!

I use LiSe version.

I got relationship problems with them(one is my manager and one is my executive coordinator).

So I asked yi
Q: (how to deal with them at office?)
I got hex 34 and made some interpretations.

34 - The power of the Great
Perseverance furthers.

Hex 34 sounds great for me if I do not resign from current company.

Line 3 -Small people use vigor. The noble man uses nets. Determination:*danger.
The he-goat butts a hedge, entangles its horns.
(Line 3 ) Suggests me to work quietly so I will not be forced into danger, even if I am in an inferior or Subordinate position.*

Line 4 - Determination*auspicious.*Regrets*disappear.
The fence breaks open, no entanglement.
The vigor of a big cart's axle.*
(It suggests me that not to use force when I deal with them.)
Have to deal with them by calm and intelligent perseverance. The power of the Superior Man(I) should not show itself openly.

Line 5- Losing sheep at Yi. Without*regret.
I dun get what yi suggest for line 5 honestly.

What I see is without taking risks with them, can't handel for relationship.(line 5)

I just interpreted into simple way but i think
It doesn't make sense to deal with them.

Somebody clearheaded, please help make sense - I have made quite a riddle out of this probably very simple answer!

Thank you very much and warmly welcome for
Your different perception.
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19.4.5.58 weather

July 29, 2017, 3:07 pm
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I asked about the weather. Until when is it horrible situation without communication? I think he may be saying that in August. Approach and communication. But I do not understand the lines. If anyone can help me I appreciate it.
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