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Investigation--Need some insight asap

March 14, 2017, 2:02 pm
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Hi. I am a certified Handwriting analyst who has been working on a double homicide, possibly a serial killer of children and teens!
This has outraged people all around the world why these four precious little souls had to be taken and taken in the vile manner
in which they were found. it makes my blood boil that the men or man who did this keeps eluding authorities who are working so hard day and night. I too, have worked hard on this case having found three very good clues which I promptly turned over to the authorities. But they are tired, weary and disillusioned as I am. so I asked the question: What can be said about the evil me or man who did these horrible things to these girls and got: HEX 5.2.3 Waiting, changing to HEX 24 Returning.

Hex 5.2.3.5.
Changing Lines

Line 2
'Waiting on the sands, there are small words.
In the end, good fortune.'

Line 3
'Waiting in the bog invites the arrival of robbers.'

Line 5
'Waiting with food and drink.
Constancy, go

Am I the one to wait or are the evil men waiting till they can escape?
Also, what does Line 3 "waiting in the bog invites the arrival of robbers"? does that mean I am in physical danger by keeping on my investigation of this terrible crime? They are going to come after me even though they don't know who I am? Although they may have found me on FaceBook. I sure hope not!
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still struggling 6>41

March 14, 2017, 6:30 pm
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Further to this thread (unfortunately) https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...46-gt-48/page2

The boss has returned so that's a good thing but unfortunately the animosity around this situation has not.
For me if someone has done the wrong thing by me but has shown no accountability nor apologised I just can't be friendly towards them....it doesn't mean I'm horrible to them, it just means I want nothing to do with them unless I have to.

This woman wants to be friendly towards me as if nothing has happened and is now trying to cause more trouble for me because I'm not returning the favour.

My boss has asked me to meet with her on the pretense of another issue she wants to discuss with me....why people think you can't see through their rouse is beyond my comprehension but anyway...

Please show me the best thing to do for myself re this situation

6.1.4.5>41

Hex 41 curb anger and restrains desire - yes I'm doing that by not being outwardly angry, except not being friendly toward her, and my desire to speak up about the truth (as I see it). Well actually I don't feel angry anymore but I do feel frustrated she just won't let it go. It looks like I won't let it go because I'm being 'unfriendly' but as far as I'm concerned it's been done and dusted - move on.

Hex 6 - no point in arguing because I just can't win this one

Line 1 says my attitude is not working but if I'm pleasant (small words) things will be fortunate
Line 4 things will change better for me if I just change my attitude

However
Line 6 says arguing the case will bring me good fortune and resolution

I know Trojina will say I'm using a lot of energy in terms of this but honestly if she'd just go about her business and ignore me there's no energy expended but unfortunately she's not letting 'sleeping dogs lie'.
Yesterday we had a staff meeting, which is the norm once a fortnight, and she fell flat on her face twice with her suggestions but noone said a word, however if one of us looks at fault about the slightest thing she's all over it being as derogatory as she can get away with.
Trojina also said something along the line of people like this usually losing their job pretty fast because of their behaviour so perhaps that could happen here.
I spoke to one of my supportive workmates and she's suggested I just be friendly and co-operate and then all be well.....I do find that hard.

Any suggestions on how to do that when you have a very bitter taste in your mouth, please let me know.

thanks

As per usual after I've posted my thread I can see where my fault lay so I've done another reading looking for how I can honestly look to self sort this out....

Please show me the way to bring positive favour to myself at work

28.4.5>46

Lots of pressure - I have a looooot of that overall in my life and I guess somewhere it breaks.

Show me where I can release this pressure

7.1.2.3>36

Let go of the wounds Hex 36 that I'm allowing to rule my life and get some discipline happening Hex 7.
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Help with Unchanging 41

March 14, 2017, 7:06 pm
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I will try my best to make this clear.

Basically I had a platonic relationship with X and I wanted to keep it that way. He ended up saying he was in love with me, but in reality ended becoming very possessive, jealousy and couldn't accept i wasn't in love with him. He said horrible things about me. and was always getting angry at me. We did have a talk and Explained my feeling of wanted to just remain friends. This played out over a year. It built up to a final blowout between us 10 months ago and I stopped talking with him and moved on. I decided he was too toxic to have in my life.

It was very heartbreaking for me personally since we worked together creatively and I have grieved deeply all the creative work we can not do anymore. I also considered him a best friend and we worked well together. I since have totally let him go, been respectful, and walked away even from a lot of money he owes me, ect. I left him alone since he made it clear for me to get out of his life in our last conversation.

I come to find out he is still saying mean things about me(after these 10 months) still obsessing and trying desperately on social media to make me jealous with a girl he is hanging out with. ( I was happy to hear he was with a girl thinking maybe he will stop talking about me!!)
He contacted a friend of mine last week and texted my friend very mean! and untrue things about me. But then will say he is in love with me! wtf

Still I have not said anything to him or other people and basically have left sleeping dogs lie. I havent contacted him because it I know will not help anything. it will make things worse.


My question to the IC "can I please ask you for advice on how to handle this situation with X"
I received hex unchanging 41

Should I take this that I need to stop feeling so hurt? or emotional and accept its over. This is confusing because I have accepted its over, I dont want to contact him, I want him to stop talking about me and leave me alone, but yes I do feel sad. its true. Am I wrong to feel sad? Im confused because I have accepted it as over.
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39 31

March 15, 2017, 1:10 am
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I share with you one more yi's answer in case someone could help me.

Talking to yi:
I am so confused, some casts show that I will be together with my ex, some of them that we will remain apart permanently. What is accurate?
hexagram 39 changing line 4 to hexagram 31

Really, I can't believe that the line shows reconciliation but you never know. I tend to believe that this is the end, moreover I have decided to move on and that's what I do.
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Which is more important? The changing line or the second hexagram?

March 15, 2017, 3:33 am
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Hallo group!
Here is my big big query!

I usually pose a question on the possible outcome of a choice of action
and it always puzzles me very much when the changing line seems to be in contradiction with the second hexagram (which I consider an outcome of the course of action of my choice)

What do you consider more relevant in cases like this?
The changing line or the second hexagram?

Here is an example I just got few minutes ago:

Question:
"What happens if I decide to proceed legally against a client that doesn't pay me? Is it right?"

And the answer was

25 - Innocence
with 9 on the fifth, therefore changing to
21 - Biting Through

Now the 9 on the fifth says more or less
"Use no medicine in an illness
Incurred through no fault of your own.
It will pass of itself"

which it makes me think I really should just stand by

But then
21 - Biting Through
it seems to say the opposite:
"Biting Through has success.
It is favorable to let the justice be administered"

Therefore take action and you will be rewarded!

Besides the fact that the answer is incredibly on the point, as usual, referring specifically to 'the justice' which I am legally seeking,
this is where I always get lost!
The seemingly contradiction between the changing line and the second hexagram
Now, even without getting into the specific reading (but please do, if you feel like you can help!!)
where do you usually place the most importance?

Thank you for your attention

Carlo
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Blog post: Yi, emotions and decisions

March 15, 2017, 5:15 am
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How often have you heard someone say they need to consult with Yi (and perhaps need help with the interpretation) because they’re ‘too subjective’ or ‘too emotionally involved’ with the topic?
In a way, that can be true. We can be too close to something, too caught up in its ins-and-outs, and need to step back to find space to see the situation from a new angle. That’s something readings help with. Remembering Yi’s response to,*‘What do we give, when we give a reading?’ – 34.1.2.3.4 to 2 – it seems to me that this is what happens at line 4 –
‘Constancy, good fortune.
Regrets vanish.
The hedge broken through, no entanglement.
Vigour in the axle straps of a great cart.’
– when we break through and are no longer trapped inside those thought-hedges that block most of the world from sight.
However, what we’re escaping here is not emotional involvement; in fact, the idea that emotion gets in the way of taking decisions turns out to be exactly wrong.
There have been famous medical cases of people with brain injuries that left their rational intelligence perfectly intact, while they lost the capacity to feel emotion: people who, in effect, are compelled to take decisions without emotional involvement. They*either make atrociously bad decisions or make none at all.
An anecdote from a case history: a man with this type of brain damage is offered a choice of two dates for his next appointment. He pulls out his diary and begins enumerating the pros and cons of each option, lucidly and in detail. Thirty minutes later, he is*still*weighing the pros and cons; finally, the doctor tells him which day to come, and he says, ‘OK, fine’ and leaves.
So for this man stuck in an endless loop of ‘on the one hand… on the other hand…’ the problem was a*lack of subjectivity.*His situation is extreme, and tragic – but I think still has something in common with the kind of indecision we bring to the oracle.
To look at this from the opposite direction for a moment,*think of that commonly-taught way of motivating yourself by tapping into the emotion associated with the end result. You vividly imagine attaining your end result, deliberately become aware of its full emotional impact, then connect that emotional state to the work you need to do today. Emotional involvement gives you the power*to break through the hedge and get started.
And… I think readings, especially readings about decisions, work in a similar – if subtler – way. From what I’ve seen of how people struggle, where we get stuck and how we get unstuck, readings*don’t work like a list of pros and cons. Instead, we ask ‘What about doing this?’ ‘What about doing that instead?’ and Yi says,*‘Here is what that would be like.’ It gives you a*picture of the experience, something you can imagine yourself living, so you know how it feels.
Sometimes, of course, it also tells*you that what you’re contemplating is objectively a good or bad idea (good fortune, pitfall…), but often the reading experience is more completely subjective than you might realise at the time.
This is something that’s easier to see when you watch other people respond to their readings. Someone might be discouraged by*Hexagram 46, Pushing Upward (‘Do not worry, set forth to the south, good fortune!’) because they can’t face the prospect of a long, step-by-step climb. Someone else might welcome Hexagram 44, Coupling (‘Do not marry this woman!’), because they enjoy risk and uncertainty. Hexagram 29, the Repeating Chasms, might be greeted with ‘No, not that again!’ or ‘Yes, that’s how deeply I’m committed to this.’ And in each case, that unique and wholly subjective emotional response is what makes a decision possible.
In other words… Yi isn’t a way to become less emotionally involved; it’s more like the opposite.*It gives us a clear and direct emotional connection to*our reality, so we can rediscover the capacity to choose.
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48.4.5>32 Show me a picture of my mindset relating to my relationship with him.

March 15, 2017, 7:11 am
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So a previous reading said that I need to examine my mindset, and perhaps change it if I keep having the same thing happen over and over again in my relationships. So I asked this, Show me a picture of my mindset relating to my relationship with him. getting 48.4.5 transforming to 32

my initial thoughts on this message is that I look outward to my partners for my source of love and connection, and though the partners change, I keep on looking for that same source, therefore it is time to look within for what I need. Transforming figure describes how I feel about the nature of the relationship from his side, a lack of commitment for success and we fell at the first hurdle, when I felt we needed to work through.

Have you experts have any thoughts? I am not a very visual person, I find visualising things quite difficult so I am often confused the Ching please bare with me!

Many Thanks
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27 changing to 41

March 16, 2017, 6:38 am
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Hello

I've Ben with my boyfriend for just over 5 years now. I haven't been feeling the same for the last 6 months or so (there is an awful lot to our relationship and too much to write on here) but I don't want to make a mistake in breaking up with him and regret it afterwards. We live together and have done for 3 years, we have a dog etc and joint financial responsibilities.

I did a reading and asked what the outcome would be if I broke up with him and I was given 27 changing to 41. My moving line in number 27 was line 2.

Can anyone shed any light on this? I'm feeling very confused!

Thank you!
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Really could use some help...Seeing!

March 16, 2017, 11:00 am
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Dear people of clear seeing,

I could really really really use some help...

Obviously it is something *I* need to be able to do it for myself...But I am simply unable to.

I have gotten 20.5.6 to 2 a few times now.

I don't know how to present the situation...may be just the tail end mess...that has left me now for a long while holding the 'dirty basket' so to speak...

The situation involves someone who might be what is considered as a 'twin flame'...our arc is now over half our lives...we have a very in-depth connection...we both seem to know and feel each other's thoughts...there is a sense of pure completion when we can meet in pure love at the heart...but we both seem to have trust issues...we have never really been together...it has always been sort of 'hit and run'...

I don't really fully understand our dynamic...I can't fully conclude if he wants to 'win' or love...I might have been the one that got away for him...I was able to put my life together in a positive way, for my conscience was clean. I simply concluded he was 'dead' to me, when I found that he had married someone...but it seems that he might have been 'tricked' into it.

So now we have a rather wounded type person, who seems to want to gain a better sense of himself, by sucking me into his life somehow (energetically)...in the last couple of years, we kept meeting and I kept getting stranded in his hometown (floods, plane crashes...I mean really 'big' events that would ground me near him...and looking back over the entire span, every road seemed to lead me to where he was, without my having then known to be the case)...

So clearly at some cosmic level, the big person up there is bringing us together...but the little people inside us, seem to not quite get the message and let 'it' happen whatever it might be...

The final tally at it stands is...he is not talking to me...which is amazing because, it was he who told me he still had feelings for me...which made my entire body go cold...because i mean, he is still married...and sure enough it was just a way to somehow suck me into his world...it was as though he needed me to take the flak for his wife...and i have...

and it is so yuck all over...it is as though we have exchanged our inner states...me feeling radiant and grateful for all that was, just the way it was with his bittersweetness and futility...

i am now switching between wrathfulness and not wanting *anything* at all to do with him with a good dose of wanting him to suffer for all that he has put me through...to realising that I am just having to 'wash' his karma out...knowingly or unknowingly i had taken upon myself...i mean there is nowhere else to put it, is there?

In seeing his life and mine, I see that everything he has judged me for, he had had to go through it himself, and everything I have left him for, I have had to experience them in my own life and found them lacking too...he seems to be a little behind me, in life's path...

but what am i to do???

oh it would be so great to just go to town on him!!! but i think i have to reign in the kali somehow...i *have* to be receptive but *not* a doormat or a dumping ground....i resent how i have been treated by him...it *is* so very wrong...I *should* have not waded into his projections...but i did...and now i am the one left feeling so besmirched and dirtied...and for no wrong, except a wrong sense of compassion...and helpfulness...and yes, love. The big Love by a very small person.

oh boy.

And and all your kind prayers and helpful insight, so very welcome.

I am drowning...in quagmire...between this on one side, and my terrible family on the other...one wonders was one Jesus christ not enough for this world? Why have I run into where angels fear thread?

SEEING. Learning. TO. BE. Receptive.

I want my cosmic mommy. But I really really want what is right with the Beloved.
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March 16, 2017, 3:40 pm
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To send email or not? 32UC & 62.6 > 56

March 16, 2017, 3:57 pm
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So I am thinking of sending an email in work to get the ball rolling once again on a project.

So I asked: "What is the outcome of sending the email?" & got Hex 32 Unchanging.

So perseverance & endurance bringing success, but I have also seen interpretations of this Hex suggesting that things will continue as they are (as is nothing is really happening right now)

So confused about what it was trying to tell me I asked a follow up:

"How will sending an email be received?" & got 62.6 > 56 - Wow!

Am I right in thinking this message will be shot down like the little bird?! Not to send it at all - Misfortune!

After initially thinking 32UC was very promising & possibly fruitful; 62.6 is a very stark contrast.


Any input on these Hex's?
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1.2.3>25 Montessori

March 17, 2017, 12:51 pm
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I had a realisation about my job yesterday - I just can't deal with the tight limitions of the structures in my job and the way they 'manage' the children - it's just not how I can work happily and in my mind it's not for the ultimate best of the children.
The people are not mean nor horrible but they're not seeing that their strategies are actually causing unacceptable behaviour in children and to be honest in myself as an employee.
As I like to work more from a Montessori/Steiner point of view I'm wondering if I could work better under their structure for children.....
How would it benefit me to seek work with Montessori

1.2.3>25

Hex 25 totally describes the position I feel I'm in now in my present work position 'one who is not upright committs blunders' snd 'fruitless to have a direction to go'. The directions I want to take things at work are a waste of time and because I've tried to implement them my employers feel I'm making mistakes....

I feel Hex 1 is saying to start look for a more creative place for me to work and Line 2 to find support from others of Montessori mindset.
Line 3 An opportunity will come available but I need to mindful of my approach.

I sent an email to the head of the closest Montessori place to me attaching my resume etc. Asking him to advise me how I could move into the Montessori sector. It's not a teacher position so I may not have to be Montessori trained.

With all the issues I've had with my work situations I have taken on board my accountability and am working through those personally but it still doesn't take away what I've said at the beginning of this post so I'd also like to make peace with myself before I do leave this job behind and know that although it's been an unpleasant experience I understand that is they way we can learn our lessons.
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How to interpret the answer 40.4 > 7

March 17, 2017, 9:55 pm
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At my question:"how to interpret the general attitude of Radu towards me?" and I received the answer hexagram 40.4 > 7.

This means that I should move on to make place for someone else in my life ? or he has some issues to work out?

Thanks
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blocked: what to do? 12.6 to 45 and 60.1.5.6 to 4

March 18, 2017, 3:26 am
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Hi to all, and thank you for being here. I am still a big trouble so today I asked: analysis of the situation
and it was not a surprise to get
12.6 to 45 bloked
which is also saying gathering. So I asked again to whom can I get help
and I got 60.1.5.6 to 4 measuring and not knowing. What does it means? Where I can search the help that Yi was advising me to ask in the first reading? Should I search or should I wait that something happens?
I would be very pleased to know what you think about that :)
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Helping a friend of a friend

March 18, 2017, 9:37 am
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I would like to help a friend of a friend but I don't know her that well, I don't want her to feel I'm being nosey picking into her business. She seems very introverted and I'm not sure she will like someone who is not close to her offering her help. She posted on facebook how she was feeling and it's really similar to how I have felt in the past so I think I can help her out.

What do you think about offering help? 44.3>6
Not sure if it's saying I can help her but that it will be difficult?

How will she react if I offer her help? 54.3.5.6>1
The answer doesn't seem too positive to me.

What do you think? Thank you!
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10.4 > 61 and 49.4 > 63

March 18, 2017, 2:19 pm
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Hello All,

Yet ANOTHER Love life related reading/question? Damn reproductive urges!

Anyways, I've had a great deal of bad love luck ever since the events posted about here:
https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...ith-me-tonight

I won't bore you all with details, but trust me, bad luck, a curse even, perfectly describes what I have been going through... Murphy's law fully applied in ways big and small, though I will share a quick and funny (if you have a perverse sense of humor like I do)) example: during election season, a dating ap I used had optional "skins" for users profile.. One said something along the lines of "Don't be a Chump, vote for Trump", the other said "A woman's place is in the White House" (denoting support for clinton). I happened to be a Bernie supporter, so I was for neither of the two options represented by the skins, but after two months of receiving no matches, I decided to check out my 'home page'... the Trump supporter skin was on it, and I had most certainly not chosen it! That wouldn't be a problem if I lived in Rural montana, but I live in NYC, a verrrrry liberal place!!!! I removed it, but it kept on appearing until a month after the election. I even wrote the company about it. A glitch? Yes, but in the greater context one of mannnny instances of chance working against me, and as I said there are many other events and happenings that are of the bad luck variety, many of which have lacked the humorful elements of the one just related.

anyways, about two months ago after having had more than enough of this sort of crap, I asked the Iching:
"WTF!!! is going on with my love life... Am I cursed? Will this get better?" etc etc etc. It wasn't the most concise question, but came from a place of real emotion and real need.
I recieved
10.4> 61
Cautious advance/treading
Liu: Treading: Stepping on the tail of a tiger, but it does not bite one. Success. [You should act only after you have planned carefully, and then with resolution.]
line 4:Liu: He steps on the tail of the tiger. Caution and fearfulness. Good fortune in the end. [Trouble or disaster threaten and one must be very careful.]

Well, this matches the various troubles I have faced, certainly sounds like a 'curse' (make of that what you will, after many experiences, I tend to believe such things exist, and exist in many forms causes and expressions... not solely in the mind etc)... so yes, the iching seems to be saying "yes, something is indeed f-d up here, in fact you have/are stepping on a tiger's tail, you didn't side step it or avoid it.... but walk this path with care and it will turn out well"

relating/changing hexagram :
61:
Inner truth/sincerity etc etc etc
Liu:Inner Truthfulness. Sea Lions -- good fortune. It is of benefit to cross the great water.
The wind over the lake symbolizes Inner Truthfulness. The superior man judges criminals and postpones capital punishment.

Ok, some hexagrams I get. Hexagram 10? I understand it somewhat... the imagery makes sense. Hexagram 61? I've never understood it, nor how to apply it so as to understand what the Iching is saying about a question that has been asked in which 61 plays a part in the answer.

the only thing that I get that might apply here is the imagery of wading through a great stream, as a stream would be an obstacle in a journey, plus you would be wading through it, not using a rowboat.

so the overall message of this must be/have been "Yes, something is messed up here, but keep moving anyways, don't consider the life of a celibate monk just yet"

A few weeks ago, I finally seemed to connect somewhat with a woman I am actually attracted to. Some confusion and bad luck on our first date almost derailed that, but I was able to work around it. She is attractive, cultured, though she has a child and so this obviously (and rightly so!) takes up the majority of her free time. This is a bit of an issue for me, nothing major, as adventures and jaunts etc would be limited, but I do want children of my own some day, and in basic convo she is uncertain if she wants anymore (we are both 39, so these sorts of topics come up early on in dating so that everything is out there). We have been on a few dates, no biblical intimacy yet. We are attracted to each other etc...

Given my 2 year continuum of terrible luck, I have conditioned myself (or been conditioned) to not get too hopeful, as that has led to great emotional pain.

I asked:
what potential is there between me and Z?

49.4- 63
Metamorphoses/transformation
Liu: Revolution. When the appropriate day comes, the people will believe in it. Great success. It is beneficial to continue. Remorse vanishes.
Liu: Within the lake, fire -- this symbolizes Revolution. The superior man makes a calendar, clearly arranging the seasons.

Judgment: Hidden within its cocoon the caterpillar becomes a butterfly -- who would believe it until the Metamorphosis was complete?

The Superior Man recognizes that celestial sequences create changes only when they are due; he therefore acts in accordance with the requirements of the times.
line 4: Liu: Remorse vanishes. People believe him. Changing the government brings good fortune.

Changing/relating Hexagram 63:
Completion
Success in the small. It benefits to continue. Good fortune at first; disorder in the end.

Hmmm... this looks sort of good. Changing the Government? IF there is potential here, it represents a sea change of sorts for me?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, thanks!
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Hello All

March 18, 2017, 7:03 pm
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I am new ti the Forum but not new to Clarity. My interpretations may be a little off so feel free to jump right in with the correct Meaning. So I asked Yi If my Boyfriend has Any intentions of coming back to me and received 8.6 to 20. The Final lines I interpreted as the time is near wait to see or he is thinking about it? Please Help Me Thanks
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Please help clarify my reading

March 19, 2017, 2:11 pm
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Please clarify my reading. I was thinking about my spirituality when i consulted
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Here comes the Sun

March 20, 2017, 3:37 am
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Today on 10h 29m 46s UTC (GMT) the majestic Helios enters Aries entering the Northern- and leaving the Southern Hemisphere.




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29.1 changing to 60

March 20, 2017, 4:44 am
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Hello

I would be grateful for your advice. I have been working clearing my vibration and what I attract into my life. I try to reach for happy and good feeling thoughts. My question is 'Am I vibration point to where I am going' and I received 29.1 changing to 60. I would like your help in interpreting this.

Many thanks
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