Hi everyone,
Long time lurker, first time poster. Your help would be greatly appreciated.
Background:
Old, old friend, ex lover from my late teens (my first love), reconnected 4 years ago or so, have seen each other a few times at random intervals where we happened to be in the same place. He is separated with one grown child and two teens.
We have had an online relationship which has grown quite flirtatious but he will not make plans to see me as each time he does something happens which means he does not turn up. I have had this happen with me a couple of times as well, almost to the point where it feels like we are "bouncing" off of each other until it's time for us to convene again. I am very spiritual as is he and I get the impression we are "ascension buddies" given that the times we turn up in each other's lives are times of extreme change and paradigm shifts of consciousness are what happens for each of us when the other turns up. We both evolve on a massive scale when it happens and both go through an almost complete life change - friends drop off, old relationships and patterns dissipate, karma shifts and gets processed until we reach a state of freshness and evolution to see us through the next stage of life.
I would like a relationship with him. I feel like he's probably one of the only people who is equipped to understand me completely on an authentic level. It's a deeply profound, real and magical connection, where when we talk to each other the whole world disappears and we can't see the sky.
I asked, "How do I get him to accept me as a potential partner?" My energy when asking was/is still not in the sense of controlling another, which is ethically unsound, but more in terms of what I can do that will make it clear to him that I would be a good option. I always divine with the highest good in my heart.
I got 27.6 > 24 as the answer.
I took it as the need to share spiritual food with him, but possibly also ask him round for dinner?
Also then I asked, "How would he respond if I asked him round for dinner?"
And got Hex 1 unchanging, which I always thought was a positive response as it is primordial Yang, however it being static implies that Yang does not change and always stays Yang rather than shifting to Yin. I might just be confusing myself and doing my own head in.
I have been reading the Yi for nigh on 20 years but have never sought assistance from anyone else.
Could anyone who feels they have something to share in relation to this please comment?
Thanks in advance,
Bexytea
Long time lurker, first time poster. Your help would be greatly appreciated.
Background:
Old, old friend, ex lover from my late teens (my first love), reconnected 4 years ago or so, have seen each other a few times at random intervals where we happened to be in the same place. He is separated with one grown child and two teens.
We have had an online relationship which has grown quite flirtatious but he will not make plans to see me as each time he does something happens which means he does not turn up. I have had this happen with me a couple of times as well, almost to the point where it feels like we are "bouncing" off of each other until it's time for us to convene again. I am very spiritual as is he and I get the impression we are "ascension buddies" given that the times we turn up in each other's lives are times of extreme change and paradigm shifts of consciousness are what happens for each of us when the other turns up. We both evolve on a massive scale when it happens and both go through an almost complete life change - friends drop off, old relationships and patterns dissipate, karma shifts and gets processed until we reach a state of freshness and evolution to see us through the next stage of life.
I would like a relationship with him. I feel like he's probably one of the only people who is equipped to understand me completely on an authentic level. It's a deeply profound, real and magical connection, where when we talk to each other the whole world disappears and we can't see the sky.
I asked, "How do I get him to accept me as a potential partner?" My energy when asking was/is still not in the sense of controlling another, which is ethically unsound, but more in terms of what I can do that will make it clear to him that I would be a good option. I always divine with the highest good in my heart.
I got 27.6 > 24 as the answer.
I took it as the need to share spiritual food with him, but possibly also ask him round for dinner?
Also then I asked, "How would he respond if I asked him round for dinner?"
And got Hex 1 unchanging, which I always thought was a positive response as it is primordial Yang, however it being static implies that Yang does not change and always stays Yang rather than shifting to Yin. I might just be confusing myself and doing my own head in.
I have been reading the Yi for nigh on 20 years but have never sought assistance from anyone else.
Could anyone who feels they have something to share in relation to this please comment?
Thanks in advance,
Bexytea