22.3.4.5.6 to 17 - Attracting the right person

I wanted to get others' take on this reading. ((please and thank you in advance!!))

I asked the Yi - "What do I need to do to attract the man that will give me the love and attention I deserve and need?"
I got 22.3.4.5.6 (Grace and Beauty) changing to 17 (Following).

so for 22 - I am taking that to mean I need to express more of my internal essence, let my grace and beauty out more? I read the words "beauty of form" and being something *for* someone. the example of a wildflower was given ... what makes a wildflower beautiful? some may thinks its beautiful and other may see only a weed. I am inclined to ask, "so how do I know who to preform for?" but I guess I should just let my beauty out and be myself and see who appreciates it?!? LOL

But also - kinda of confusing about 22 is the ability of it to be superficial. so I am a little confused!

And then how does that lead into 17 - Following? I should be my beautiful *wildflower* self and let the wind carry me where it may? Going with the flow? it would seem I have no say in the answer to my question. I have to just be and let it carry me?

....any clarity will be welcomed!!!
~lorna