Hello All.
Some background - I went through a big breakup about 2 years ago. Since then I have been fully and completely immersed in opening a business of my own, which I now see as my "phoenix" of sorts, along with all of the spiritual growth that the process of all that work has inspired.
Anyhow, I am just now beginning to dip my toes into dating again. I live in a very small, rural place, I am 37 years old, and the "pool" is quite small around here...
Through a friends reference my mother has hired a carpenter to build a new garage at her house. I have had numerous pleasant interactions with him over the last months, and through that friend that referred him I know that he is single, and that he and I would supposedly get on well. I feel a very strong attraction to him and have been somewhat "obsessed" with getting to know him better. It is not generally in my nature to make the first move, but in this scenario I think I may have to be. I feel like the attraction is likely mutual, but I also get the impression that he is somewhat "old fashioned" and would not make any kind of move until the project at my mothers house is finished, which may not be for a few months yet.
Some months ago I spontaneously bought two tickets to a musical performance, thinking that I would just figure out who to go with as the date comes closer. Today I inquired "what if I invite J to the show with me?" and received 61.2, changing to 42. This is the second time I received this sequence regarding this person, the first time being two days after I first met him, when the inquiry was a general "what is the potential here..."
I see the line as quite auspicious, but am wondering if it encourages direct action like asking him on a date, or if it would be more of a suggestion to wait, let things take their natural course, and that if it's "meant" it will all come together in due time...
Any suggestions would be most appreciated.
Some background - I went through a big breakup about 2 years ago. Since then I have been fully and completely immersed in opening a business of my own, which I now see as my "phoenix" of sorts, along with all of the spiritual growth that the process of all that work has inspired.
Anyhow, I am just now beginning to dip my toes into dating again. I live in a very small, rural place, I am 37 years old, and the "pool" is quite small around here...
Through a friends reference my mother has hired a carpenter to build a new garage at her house. I have had numerous pleasant interactions with him over the last months, and through that friend that referred him I know that he is single, and that he and I would supposedly get on well. I feel a very strong attraction to him and have been somewhat "obsessed" with getting to know him better. It is not generally in my nature to make the first move, but in this scenario I think I may have to be. I feel like the attraction is likely mutual, but I also get the impression that he is somewhat "old fashioned" and would not make any kind of move until the project at my mothers house is finished, which may not be for a few months yet.
Some months ago I spontaneously bought two tickets to a musical performance, thinking that I would just figure out who to go with as the date comes closer. Today I inquired "what if I invite J to the show with me?" and received 61.2, changing to 42. This is the second time I received this sequence regarding this person, the first time being two days after I first met him, when the inquiry was a general "what is the potential here..."
I see the line as quite auspicious, but am wondering if it encourages direct action like asking him on a date, or if it would be more of a suggestion to wait, let things take their natural course, and that if it's "meant" it will all come together in due time...
Any suggestions would be most appreciated.