Recently had a tiff with a lover, we agreed to part ways. It's been about a week since we last spoke, but I get the sense that he wants to reconcile.
Shortly after the fight, he tried to talk to me at work but I was busy and honestly was still hurt about what he said (so I purposely avoided him most of the day). Yesterday he came in again to my workplace, but I was busy with a client and had my office door closed (so we missed each other again). He's supposed to come in again tomorrow.
I asked Iching, what is my position in this situation and got 47UC, which is pretty accurate. I was pretty hurt by what he said during the argument. A few days prior I tried having a frank discussion with him about the future of the relationship and he went on 3 hour tirade vacilating back and forth between him being in love with me (telling all his friends and family about me) and then switching to him being "uncertain" about the future. I responded that if he was unsure, it was best to just part and leave it at that.
When I asked what his position was in this situation I got 28UC. Does this mean he is at his "breaking point" where he will open up to me and tell me how he really feels? During the 3 hour talk last week he mentioned being fearful of getting close to me due to bad experiences with women in the past. What are your experiences with 28UC?
Many thanks
Shortly after the fight, he tried to talk to me at work but I was busy and honestly was still hurt about what he said (so I purposely avoided him most of the day). Yesterday he came in again to my workplace, but I was busy with a client and had my office door closed (so we missed each other again). He's supposed to come in again tomorrow.
I asked Iching, what is my position in this situation and got 47UC, which is pretty accurate. I was pretty hurt by what he said during the argument. A few days prior I tried having a frank discussion with him about the future of the relationship and he went on 3 hour tirade vacilating back and forth between him being in love with me (telling all his friends and family about me) and then switching to him being "uncertain" about the future. I responded that if he was unsure, it was best to just part and leave it at that.
When I asked what his position was in this situation I got 28UC. Does this mean he is at his "breaking point" where he will open up to me and tell me how he really feels? During the 3 hour talk last week he mentioned being fearful of getting close to me due to bad experiences with women in the past. What are your experiences with 28UC?
Many thanks