Hexagram 26

So my landlady knows I'm going through trauma therapy for sex crimes committed against me as a young girl.
She also knows I lost one of my jobs through no fault of my own, she also knows I'm constantly looking for work and work when I get the chance and I also told her I can barely afford to feed myself because she keeps harassing me for more bond money.
I have never ever been behind in my rent or asked to be. The landlady also knows I have car repairs that need doing and actually owe the mechanic for the last job - not much but I do owe him and am trying to find a way to get the money for further car repairs so I can keep my car on the road so I can keep working when the opportunity arises.
Just an hour ago she left a note for me - either start giving me extra money every week so I can accumulate a bond from you or you have a month to move out. Of course she also knows that to find a rental anywhere near here is almost impossible.

Please show me the way to progress this present situation

Hexagram 26 - Great Taming - Not eating at home (well that's clearly on the cards if I give her more money) and crossing the river - hmm wonder what river that is.

So does Great restraint mean do nothing and see what happens or act in a disciplined way and find somewhere else to live.