I've been friends with a couple for over 27 years. About 18 months ago I had a fall out with the husband but it resolved itself naturally and we moved on and there's been no problems since. I actually don't like him all that much but she is my closest friend who has shown me so much unconditional love and support particularly these last 12 months and our friendship has grown even more so I do my best to make out I'm interested in whatever's going on for him as well but to be honest I really don't care. A couple of weeks ago he 'made a pass' at me and as soon as I could I told my friend....she was mortified and said it will never happen again saying he was very drunk which was obvious. I laughed it off because it didn't really bother me considering I'd known them for so many years but tonight after I'd left after spending the evening with them having a few drinks and dinner I received a text msge off him saying he was horny and could I send a naked photo of myself....holy shi* !!!
What do I need to know about his intentions with this behaviour
Hexagram 4.2.3>52
I feel like Hex 4 and line 2 is him being immature but I'm unsure about line 3 in this context.
Also he does get put out if she spends time with others and his not getting her attention but they've been a couple for over 30 years. I thought maybe he's trying to stop me from spending time with her but if anything he's behaviour, other than this inappropriateness shows he likes me very much as a person generally.
There's a bit of weird twist to all of this....I'm about to start intense therapy for sex crimes committed on me when I was a teenager which I'd just learned to live with the traumatic effect they'd had on me all my life. Also during the course of my day today another married man tried to hit on me via fb - I don't know him nor have I ever met him as far as I know.
What do I need to know about his intentions with this behaviour
Hexagram 4.2.3>52
I feel like Hex 4 and line 2 is him being immature but I'm unsure about line 3 in this context.
Also he does get put out if she spends time with others and his not getting her attention but they've been a couple for over 30 years. I thought maybe he's trying to stop me from spending time with her but if anything he's behaviour, other than this inappropriateness shows he likes me very much as a person generally.
There's a bit of weird twist to all of this....I'm about to start intense therapy for sex crimes committed on me when I was a teenager which I'd just learned to live with the traumatic effect they'd had on me all my life. Also during the course of my day today another married man tried to hit on me via fb - I don't know him nor have I ever met him as far as I know.