The situation: I have the same crush for quite some time now (although I am really not sure if I genuinely like him OR I just need someone and he happens to be around, so it's easier to make an *ahem* obsession over this- probably a combination; but I know for sure I'd like to know him better).
The readings: I enjoy doing readings and trying to interpret them, I ask questions often and it would not make any sense to share all of them with you, but sometimes I get stuck and get really curious about what is I ching trying to tell me.
So my last curiosity: Why am I not good enough for him (in his opinion)? In his opinion specifically and obviously bc I know I AM GOOD enough;;) but maybe just not for him.
I wanted to understand better what the heck is it: my looks, different interests, my grades:)), he's interested in someone else, he just doesn't want or need anybody at the moment, he just doesn't feel any spark and so on and so forth.
A little background: he had a 2year relationship with this girl; they are both in the same group so it's like they are almost always together (I mean they may try to get back together I don't know/I don't think so) but a while ago we matched on Tinder and he was soo very flirty at the beginning and then everything faded away. I thought maybe he wasn't even interested in the first place, although it didn't seem so.
Anyway, these weeks I barely see him bc he is preoccupied with some projects (normally I should see him on a daily basis) so I AM SURE he forgot of my existence, but I didn't because I apparently decided to keep him on my mind:))
Anyway the answer was: 1.1.2.3.4 moving to 20.
I thought I knew what 1 was about (how can you make progress in a certain situation, at what stage you are now, and how it is auspicious for that) BUT I just cannot understand how it relates to why am I not good for him, what do I have or have not that made him stop being interested in me. Maybe it's something very obvious and I'm just tired?
So..the verdict:??? I really hope it's not one of those times when I ching responds by talking about me and not him bc this time I really wanted to try to understand him a little bit more than me.
I feel like I talked very much for just one question:)) but here we are aaand,also, I feel like I act pretty cold if it happens to see him (like 0.2 seconds in the last weeks) but anyway I don't know if he percieves it.
+ I remember not long ago, two questions regarding this situation with him, one after another, contained hex 47 (as the first hexagram, every time with three lines changing). Baaad I know.
Happy readings for everyone!!
The readings: I enjoy doing readings and trying to interpret them, I ask questions often and it would not make any sense to share all of them with you, but sometimes I get stuck and get really curious about what is I ching trying to tell me.
So my last curiosity: Why am I not good enough for him (in his opinion)? In his opinion specifically and obviously bc I know I AM GOOD enough;;) but maybe just not for him.
I wanted to understand better what the heck is it: my looks, different interests, my grades:)), he's interested in someone else, he just doesn't want or need anybody at the moment, he just doesn't feel any spark and so on and so forth.
A little background: he had a 2year relationship with this girl; they are both in the same group so it's like they are almost always together (I mean they may try to get back together I don't know/I don't think so) but a while ago we matched on Tinder and he was soo very flirty at the beginning and then everything faded away. I thought maybe he wasn't even interested in the first place, although it didn't seem so.
Anyway, these weeks I barely see him bc he is preoccupied with some projects (normally I should see him on a daily basis) so I AM SURE he forgot of my existence, but I didn't because I apparently decided to keep him on my mind:))
Anyway the answer was: 1.1.2.3.4 moving to 20.
I thought I knew what 1 was about (how can you make progress in a certain situation, at what stage you are now, and how it is auspicious for that) BUT I just cannot understand how it relates to why am I not good for him, what do I have or have not that made him stop being interested in me. Maybe it's something very obvious and I'm just tired?
So..the verdict:??? I really hope it's not one of those times when I ching responds by talking about me and not him bc this time I really wanted to try to understand him a little bit more than me.
I feel like I talked very much for just one question:)) but here we are aaand,also, I feel like I act pretty cold if it happens to see him (like 0.2 seconds in the last weeks) but anyway I don't know if he percieves it.
+ I remember not long ago, two questions regarding this situation with him, one after another, contained hex 47 (as the first hexagram, every time with three lines changing). Baaad I know.
Happy readings for everyone!!