I am on internet dating. I am not attracted in an obvious way to anybody, dont fall in love but I am still trying to be open. Maybe with time I get closer and feel the other person.
I feel though that now I dont have the instinct to distinguish if I am giving opportunity or kind of pushing.
In the past I made efforts to work on relationships but it turned out that I was not making a compromise for the sake of the relationship, but pushing a relationship that wouldnt work. I dont want to find myself in a similar situation.
Ive been seeing a nice guy during several weeks, a good person and also good looking. But I felt very artificial, conversation didnt flow at all and deep down I was trying to avoid the dates. There was no physical contact and finally I said to him that I am not opening towards him.
Its very ambiguous as I still I feel bad, I am saying to myself that I am too demanding and I should have tried getting closer to him.
I know that my hypothetical question is a bit of a nonsense but still asked IC:
How would have been our relationship with X?
45.4.5 > 2
Seems a positive union. Somebody on the forum wrote that line 5 refers to lack of cooperation. Is this reading reflects what I already know, that it could have been a good relationship and I was just not willing to try or is there any other message? Or any advice regarding my feeling of good or bad compromise?
I would be very grateful for any interpretation. Thanks a lot.
I feel though that now I dont have the instinct to distinguish if I am giving opportunity or kind of pushing.
In the past I made efforts to work on relationships but it turned out that I was not making a compromise for the sake of the relationship, but pushing a relationship that wouldnt work. I dont want to find myself in a similar situation.
Ive been seeing a nice guy during several weeks, a good person and also good looking. But I felt very artificial, conversation didnt flow at all and deep down I was trying to avoid the dates. There was no physical contact and finally I said to him that I am not opening towards him.
Its very ambiguous as I still I feel bad, I am saying to myself that I am too demanding and I should have tried getting closer to him.
I know that my hypothetical question is a bit of a nonsense but still asked IC:
How would have been our relationship with X?
45.4.5 > 2
Seems a positive union. Somebody on the forum wrote that line 5 refers to lack of cooperation. Is this reading reflects what I already know, that it could have been a good relationship and I was just not willing to try or is there any other message? Or any advice regarding my feeling of good or bad compromise?
I would be very grateful for any interpretation. Thanks a lot.