Hello, thank you for creating this space.I threw Hexagram 1 unchanging. my question was: "Should I be in touch with S. over the next few months?Background for the question: my marriage of 17 years ended very precipitously, total shock. He's newly in recovery, just started a tremendously stressful job, his dad died very suddenly 2 years ago. He has said that i'm the love of his life, he still loves me and there's no one else but he feels hopeless (. I believe his grief/withholding/addiction distorted reality and now he has no coping mechs. It made him cruel, self-hating and small-hearted. It made me (the person from whom things and emotions were withheld) crazy and desperate and incapable of knowing what I actually felt.
So I've been released from that. He was strategic but uncommunicative in the last monthout of self-preservation and recovery. There was a tremendous amount of love and good about this relationship for many years, up until the break, so I am in shock and turned to the I Ching. How do I interpret this reading? Thanks in advance!
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