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romantic potential of 30.2 > 14 and 35.3 > 56?

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hello friends. after receiving some 12 uc a couple of times (e.g. to a question "what's wrong with me" :bag:), which generally best describes my state of being (on many levels) in recent times, i decided to take matters in my own hands anyway and so i logged back onto a dating site... i wondered what's the point of getting back there again (27.2.3.6 > 11 was the answer ;)) as i still feel a little blocked internally, not actually ready for a big relationship somehow.

anyway, initially i planned to just make myself feel better and kill time by browsing... but then i came across someone who actually unexpectedly sparked my interest. i'm pretty slow at developing connections but my mind has a tendency to become quite obsessive (probably one of the reasons I Ching's advised me to stand still for a while)... so we exchanged a couple of messages. it seems like we're both quite autonomous creatures who like to walk their own paths... and then i googled the guy (yup, that's just me) and got a bit more impressed and a little anxious at the same time (i feel there's as much potential for a deeper connection as there is for a lot of disagreement).

so, first i asked - what's the potential here, with X? 30.2 > 14

that felt really auspicious at first, but then, looking at the elements, i'm thinking it might also indicate something that burns out as quickly as it ignites? what's your take on it?

then i asked, what are the chances of actually connecting with X irl / f2f... ? 35.3 > 56

line 3 of 35 seems quite promising, yet not sure how to understand the change into 56 in this case... as mentioned, we're both rather independent and the wanderer here brings to mind snufkin from the moomins, if anyone's familiar with the character, making me think of potentially wandering in and out of each others lives while getting to know each other? not really sure how to understand it though.
any ideas? thank you all in advance!

What are his intentions? 53.1.3.6 to 3.

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Not to make a long story here. But about 3 years ago I briefly dated a guy, it was very short and I didn't feel much of a connection. He is extremely handsome and fun, but I never felt love or deep feelings. One day, he stopped calling me all of a sudden. After one month that he stopped calling me I met someone else and fell in love. Then one year after that he texted me out of the blue saying "I am sorry for not calling you, you were good to me. I realize that only now." But I was already with my guy and I told him this. Fast forward 1 year later which was 2 weeks ago he texted me and wants to know what is going on with me and wants to meet up! I admit I am quite annoyed. How can someone that you dated 3 years ago for a very BRIEF period of time still want to be with you or contact? I don't get it. We never had a formal relationship, we only met a handful of times usually after he got out of work. I do know he stopped calling me because he had another interest and chose her because I saw his Facebook profile which had a picture of him and her.BTW I don't think he is a bad guy, he is probably just confused and apparently I must have made quite a profound connection on him as I am still on his mind after 3 years! Incredible.So my question is WHY DID HE CONTACT ME? I also was thinking while concentrating on the cast WHAT DOES HE WANT?I got hexagram 53 with changing lines 1, 3 & 6 with relating hexagram 3.Okay when I saw hexagram 53 I immediately thought he wants a relationship with me or he is relationship minded. Also, hexagram 53 is often about a relationship with a mature woman and younger man or immature man. Well, in our case I am older and I am marriage and relationship minded. When I met him he told me he has never been in a long relationship, I am 5 years older than him. Hexagram 53.1 shows someone lonely. Probably him.53.3 this line shows someone being hasty. I think it might be him. I think he wants to make his move, and not thinking too but his goal. 53.6 I think this shows our 'relationship' is definitely over. What we had is gone and done. But I was wondering if this could be his relationship? Perhaps he was done with someone and wants a start with me?Hexagram 3 I wonder if he is going through a difficult time and wants a new start.I'd appreciate any insight. I am not interested, better stay away. Thank you.

Saturn Returns 4>8

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I am in the midst of my 2nd Saturn Return (Saturn 3rd House, Capricorn).....I am taking the Bach Remedy Water Violet which is I think is very fitting for this placement. I admit I do struggle to communicate effectively at times and the fewer words that are said suits me. Many times people have said 'what are you not saying'. What can I learn through my present Saturn Return Hexagram 4.2.5.6>8.....is it anything more than Learning how to relate better to create Union. thanks

ex factor 44

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I had a break up without much closure with someone last year - we had one awkward conversation about his fear of commitment and I lost my temper and told him to leave. It was a low key loss of temper - I didn't even raise my voice - but then we fell out of touch for a while. I got back in touch some time later and he was very standoffish and seemed awkward. I was wondering about reaching out to him again. Well, I don't think the Yi is being very unclear here but just wanted to check in since I feel such a strong pull to make things better. I shouldn't, though, right...? Ha.

Who am I to A? hex 41.2.5. to 42.

How does A truly feel about me? 44.4.6 to 48

Should I reach out to A? hex 4.4 to 64.

OK this is completely unambiguous isn't it. I asked then, what is it that makes A not want me in his life and got the reply

hex 28.1.4. to 5.


Any thoughts at all? Thank you very much.

priorites for current work/projects

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Moving deceased brother and his wifes belongings (and my own collections) from large storage unit to smaller one. Also leftover materials and equipment from a local food/market project, old motorcycle. Also working simultaneously to clear out years of clutter from a friend's home where I am staying for a few months. I want to purchase this house to establish a sustainable international meditator association/community. Friend/owner wants to sell, but seemingly unstable, so all my work to discover suitability of location may be for naught. Working hard physically with very little good faith from owner. Have one good friend helping me, but need to wrap up the storage movement by this Thursday, so deadline looms and I just have to work on faith that my body will hold up to the heavy work demand and the ambiguity of outcomes. Faith, faith, faith seems to be all I've got going for the next few days. Any thoughts on ambiguity?

Shoud I file a restraining order?

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So my ex, who I inquired before, has lost his mind and attacked me after we broke up. First he refused to leave the place i moved to and demanded money. After my roommates escorted him out, he followed me on the street, pushed, pulled and held me against the fall. He was screaming threats in my face, demanding money that he spent while being with me ( i don't owe him anything, as a matter of fact he lived in my place for 3mo)...etc etc. Intense abandonment issues and lack of self-control. He yelled threats and said "ill make sure you'll pay" bla bla and threaten to slender me, somethign else. I was completely shocked, also i recorded that on audio. When he held me, I cried for help, cried to call the police and he ran away. I walked to the station and got in line to file a report but my phone died so i left. I'm in CA. I have the incident recorded on audio, too. However, later he apologized but still said some nonsense and never contacted me again. Some of my friends advised me to file for a restraining order. However, there is a lot on my plate right now, Im alsoon student visa, i got some neurological issue in my back. I don't know if i should be dealing with this. Since we officially broke up, im "nobody to him" and maybe he will not care to stalk me or anything. If i'm NC with him.I asked iching whether i should request the order: How it will affect me if i get a restraining order on him? 63.2>5What if I don't file?58.5.6.>38It seems that in the first case, i will wait 7 days (Emergency police orders are exactly a week till court date, from what i'm reading). And then I'll be waiting? For what though? And if I don't file, we just get estranged and that's it? At least I don't see any danger coming anywhere, am I right? Thank you

Hex 55 to 49: Starting a business partnership with someone.

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Hello beautiful people!

I am a person that knows very little about businesses. Im just a language teacher, but I feel unfulfilled with this kind of life. Recently i have had the opportunity to go into business with a person i am not sure I can trust. I met him just a few months ago and I fellbin love with him. Our relationship has been quite troublesome and I think he has lied sometimes but have no real proof.
We are now in Tanzania where he is from and has businesses and has just asked me if I wanna rent a house with him and turn it into a hostel. He already has everything ready concerning marketing, customers, people to run the house while we're in Norway where we currently live.
I asked the iching: what if I do business with X? And got hex 55 to 49. Like usual the hexagrams seem quite positive but there are conditions, like choosing the right time and changing something radically.
What are your ideas about it?
Thanks!

Readings on moving - Two houses

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I have applied for 2 different rental properties...moving due to safety issues with current house.

How likely are we to be offered property B - unchanging Hexagram 58 -- opening, lots to celebrate...

Opening, creating success.
Constancy bears fruit.'

The early Chinese character for 'Opening' shows someone with words rising from their mouth: they seem to be dancing and singing. It means joyful and outgoing expression that opens up communication.

What about House B? Hexagram 24 unchanging

Returning: creating success.
Going out, coming in, without anxiety.
Partners come, not a mistake.
Turning around and returning on your path.
The seventh day comes, you return.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.'

Your journey leads you out and home again, through the turning points on your way. Vigour and authenticity return in the still moments of those turning points; life regenerates from the roots, and light returns.

Any insights/ideas appreciated.

Thank you,

M.P

Is this reading valid?

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I asked "What I have to know about what she feels for me?"After doing the reading I remembered that we can't make questions about other persons? So is this reading not valid?By the way the answer was 54.1.2.3.4.5.6 --> 53What is the meaning of all this?

61.5 to 41

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Hello,
my question was "" why he left me? ""
I Ching gave me this answer:"61.5"
It didn't make any sense to me. One big problem was the age gap, I was much older, but now I discovered that he stays again with a Lady who is my age. He was denying to have another relationship and he offered me to stay in his place when I was in need. Also when I discoverd he is with someelse - I hacked his phone 😎- he still denied and nonetheless of my anger und shouting he offered me still to stay in his room as long as I want. He sleeps in the living room or by friends or by his new lady. We hadn't sex or kisses since I stayed by him. Because of this I got suspious and discoverd the other story.
So, now the 5th line doesn't make sense to me. I studied some thtreads, it seems to be an auspicious line, but it doesn't correspond to reality.
Has anybod,y an idea?

What happens to the readings when I ask repeatdly about one subject? 36.1.3.4.5

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Hi all!
Happy Tuesday!
I have the feeling that the readings that I get fron Yi change somehow when I ask too much about something. I know that it’s totally a wrong idea to do so, but sometimes I euther fet confused or I guess I can’t stop myself :/.

So today I asked Yi: What happens to the readings when I ask repeatdly about ine subject? Yi’s answer: Hexagram 36.1.3.4.5 changing to 45.

I understand at first glance that Yi is telling me that he goes ‘off’ on me when I act like that. I don’t get why all the lines guves me the related Hexagram of 45... Any ideas?

Thank you so much for your kind help!!

Mo dice divination

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Hi all! I'm curious about Mo divination (a Tibetan dice oracle). Has anyone here used it? Is it helpful for insight or mainly for predictive readings? And does one need to complete Buddist rituals in order to fully benefit from it? Any information about this would be much appreciated! :)

Nuclear hexagrams

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Using nuclear hexagrams to help clarify my readings for quite some time now (full explanation of nuclears here), I've found them very useful. However, recently I noticed a slight twist when I had 50.4.5>57 in a weekly open reading. Here's what I posted about it:

"I was looking at the nuclears last night (44, 43, 38) and they have their basic story, but at the end I found myself saying 'but, I feel soooo exhausted, is there a hex 28 in there somewhere??' And, lo and behold, there it is in 1,2,3, 3,4,5, kind of front and center towards the bottom. Further, towards the top there is hex 14 in 2,3,4, 4,5,6. Now, I don´t know of any process of reading those particular hexagrams within a primary hexagram, but for hex 50, it seems to describe my situation perfectly - exhausted, but also feeling richly blessed in general."

Here are the nuclear hexagrams as presented in the link above (and I love the whole concept):
1,2,3,2,3,4 and 2,3,4,3,4,5 and 3,4,5,4,5,6 (for hex 50: 44, 43, 38)

However, I'm actually finding this alternate nuclear pattern relating better:
1,2,3,3,4,5 and 2,3,4,3,4,5 and 2,3,4,4,5,6 (for hex 50: 28, 43, 14)

Any thoughts about nuclear variations? Is there a better name for the second set of nuclears than my calling them an "alternate nuclear pattern"? Thank you in advance for any comments or advice.

49.2.6

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Hello everyone,
I've been struggling with letting go of old forms of art and moving to new ones. I know I'm ready to try something different and that really allows me to express what I need to.
So I asked yi, "I'm feeling drawn to graphic novels as an art medium, what do you recommend?" I received hex 49.2.6 < 1.
Ready for something new, something so different from what I've done in the past.
Hilary's book:
Line 2: your own day, so make radical change and set out to bring order: good fortune, no mistake.
Sound pretty good to me. Stuck in old thoughts and repetitive ideas-something to shake me up.
Line 6:noble one transforms as a leopard, small people radically change their faces. Setting out to bring order, pitfall. Settling with constancy:good fortune.
Hmm-maybe not?
I don't quite get this line.
Any help would be helpful.
Thanks

4.3-18 / 64.3.6-32

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Every day I am thinking that I should delete my ex from my facebook friends. I can't keep him there, it makes me suffer. (same post here:https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...7322-26-3-6-19)

Should I delete him? 4.3-18 It isn't a good idea. If I do it I will put myself in a subordinate position. Does it show inferiority?

Why hasn't he deleted me yet (I asked him to do it when we broke up)? 64.3.6-32
unfinished business to endurance.
64.3 Before crossing the river? attack brings misfortune.. I guess attack means 'deletion' on facebook. What could crossing the river mean?
64.6 He finally crosses the river... Does it mean that he finally deletes me?
Whatever he does it will have endurance.

I asked then: He will delete me, right? -50- I would say my understanding is correct but I wasn't sure so I asked again....

Will he delete me?
51.5.6-25 Even after a lot of shocks nothing is lost, there are things to be done, 'A marriage causes gossip' (there is still our relationship on facebook) and innocence or no entanglement... Because of no entanglement - He won't delete me or he will delete me :ouch:. Perhaps he will have a new relationship and then he will delete me. Obviously I am still confused

Hexagram 5 changing to 15

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Hexagram 57, Subtly Penetrating

Should I trust my gut feeling of leaving

I am not happy at all with my situation and feels like sacrificing myself to someone who doesn't care what I might feel.
I have random dreams that I am happy dancing with someone I didn't even know. I think my brain is helping me to cope where I am in like to feel happy even in my sleep.

Cohen's Testimony: 50.2.3 to 35 and 11.4 to 34

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Earlier today, Cohen testified at the Capitol, reveal the dirty, dark deeds of Trump. I asked, "What implications will we expect from Cohen's testimony?" 50.2.3 The Vessel to 35 Advancing. Line 2 says, "The vessel contains something real. My companions are afflicted, Cannot come near me. Good fortune." I realized that Cohen has made a warning to Trump's enablers. Line 3 says, "The vessel's ears are radically changed, Its action blocked. Rich pheasant fat goes uneaten. Rain on all sides lessens regrets, In the end, good fortune." Something doesn't seem right. I then asked, "How will Cohen's testimony affect Trump?" 11.4 Flow to 34 Great Vigour. Line 4 says, "Fluttering, fluttering. Not rich in your neighbors – not on guard against truth and confidence." Is Trump becoming more unstable mentally?

Hexagram 64 - not ready?

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Hi all!!
Happy Thursday!

I have a 64 unchanging cast that it happened :)

I kept on calling one of my relatives, a close one, and he wouldn’t answer. I started to think that maybe he wasn’t answering because he was busy, then when he didn’t rerurn the calls, I thought he was somehow avoiding me, which would have been weird, as he is a serious person and dedintely not the type to do something like that. I knew that it wasn’t health related problems.

So tonight, after calling 3 times at different times, I sent him a nice text message saying hi and telling him that I had called but I didn’t have the luck to get in contact with him.

Then, I ask Yi: Why is he not answering my calls? Yi’s answer: Hexagram 64 UC - Bedore completion-.

I interpreted it as my relative wasn’t ready ro take the call, therefore he didn’t answer.

Some time later, I got a text message back from my relative telling me that he didn’t getp any call from me, and that his ohone has a bad reception, and that he will call me romorrow.

So, now I see Hexagram 64 meaning in this case as ‘not ready’ but instead of him not being ready, it was the ohone which wasn’t ready, sue to lack of signal.

Any 0ther thoughts on 64 UC meaning? What do you think?
Thank you! : )

Should I wait for him 5.2.3.4.5 to51

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Hi everyone There has been something going on between me and this guy for months but stil none of us has took a step to talk or go out so at first I asked Yi what about my love life and the answer was 5.5 to11 so I asked should I wait for him? And the answer was 5.2.3.4.5. To 51.It has taken so much time and I'm getting frustrated of all these feelings sometimes I'm sure there is a two way feeling and sometimes the other way. I am too overwhelmed to trust myself on this reading. Should I wait and meanwhile be careful about my heart is that what is Yi telling me?

Creepy guy 7>15

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I've been frequenting a beach nearly every day for the last couple of months. As far as I know no one takes any notice of me and me of them but in the last week I've been approached by two guys. One surfs there a lot and I've seen him around but the other one has just started to show up and it just happens to be within minutes after I get there. He creeps me out. What do I need to know about Creepy guys intentions towards me? Hexagram 7.2.3>15....I get nothing from this answer except Line 3 - carting corpses - what the hell are his intentions there. The surfer guy seems harmless but it does seem a bit strange to me that all of a sudden two of them have approached me. What do I need to know about Surfer guys approach towards me...this looks to me like he just wanted to bridge the gap of not knowing each other even to say hello but he's in no rush to become good friends or anything, just friendly enough to say hello. thanks
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