worries 17 63 and 3 17

I am not sure if I have interpreted my casts about a new relationship correctly. I feel confused.
I will share both of my casts with you in case there is someone to help.

I told to yi: I am confused and I worry that I will remain single for the rest of my life:
hexagram 17 changing lines 3 and 4 to hexagram 63
I can't figure it out at all. I don't know if it shows that I will find the man I seek.

And... Will I have a partner?
hexagram 3 changing line 4 to hexagram 17
Does it show that someone will ask me to be together and it will be auspicious to accept?