My question was "Should I renew a friendship with a woman I used to be friends with?" Long story short we both messed up the friendship. She used me, I wanted more than friendship, our mutual bad habits brought us down, said some things we shouldn't have, the end.
About a year and a half ago she tried to enter my life again but I wasn't in a good place at the time so I declined.
Now I've lost weight (~450 down to 265), kicked the bad habits, am in a slightly better frame of mind, and so is she from what I can tell. Been interacting a tiny bit on FB but I asked I Ching if I should really renew the friendship.
Got 50 changing to 46 (moving lines 4 and 6)
From my little I Ching book which doesn't cover moving lines, I got that it is a big risk that might/should be successful but I might not have the skills required for a real friendship with her (we're both aspies). Either that or just don't move into friendship too fast.
About a year and a half ago she tried to enter my life again but I wasn't in a good place at the time so I declined.
Now I've lost weight (~450 down to 265), kicked the bad habits, am in a slightly better frame of mind, and so is she from what I can tell. Been interacting a tiny bit on FB but I asked I Ching if I should really renew the friendship.
Got 50 changing to 46 (moving lines 4 and 6)
From my little I Ching book which doesn't cover moving lines, I got that it is a big risk that might/should be successful but I might not have the skills required for a real friendship with her (we're both aspies). Either that or just don't move into friendship too fast.