I have been having playful banter with AS. We have a lot of fun together but mostly (not all but most) only see each in social situations (a bar he works in). We've been seeing each other more in the last weeks, however, in more intimate situations where we are getting to know each other better. Last night, we were hanging out at the bar when a "friend" of mine messaged me that he wanted to see me, could we meet at said bar. (strange about that is "friend" never goes there but he knows I go) so I said fine. I also told AS that someone was coming to meet me and that I hoped he didn't find him to be a total douche bag because he is really a sweet person and he said he needed to talk to me. So "friend" got there, we all hung out. And AS even invited both of us to his house along with another gal from the bar. It was all good. wasn't awkward. Went back to the bar and later, "friend" and I left. I had a few too many drinks and AS was over in a group of his buddies. I didn't want to draw even more attention to the fact that I was leaving with "friend" so we just bailed.
So I asked Yi:
How does AS feel about me after last night? Got 21 UC - Bite & Crack/teasing/frustration
How did my actions last night change the situation with AS? Got 54 UC marrying maiden
How should I proceed with my pursuit of AS heart? 25.1.5 > 35
so the 25>35 - I take that as the only positive reading here. basically if I act my natural self and let things unfold as they will -it could be good with him. Things take time so stay relaxed and just be real.
now, the 54 UC made me very sad as I see that as him seeing me as ...ummm... well... kinda slutty. lol I always think of 54 as the woman who never gets the man as the man only wants her for sex.
But the one I am confused and most concerned about is the 21 UC. Biting Through. I don't get this at all. well, I mean I don't know how to apply it to situation. I asked how he feels about me and biting through seems like an action and not a thought.
so have I totally screwed up and lost my chance at a possible relationship with AS?
thanks in advance,
Lorna
So I asked Yi:
How does AS feel about me after last night? Got 21 UC - Bite & Crack/teasing/frustration
How did my actions last night change the situation with AS? Got 54 UC marrying maiden
How should I proceed with my pursuit of AS heart? 25.1.5 > 35
so the 25>35 - I take that as the only positive reading here. basically if I act my natural self and let things unfold as they will -it could be good with him. Things take time so stay relaxed and just be real.
now, the 54 UC made me very sad as I see that as him seeing me as ...ummm... well... kinda slutty. lol I always think of 54 as the woman who never gets the man as the man only wants her for sex.
But the one I am confused and most concerned about is the 21 UC. Biting Through. I don't get this at all. well, I mean I don't know how to apply it to situation. I asked how he feels about me and biting through seems like an action and not a thought.
so have I totally screwed up and lost my chance at a possible relationship with AS?
thanks in advance,
Lorna