I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I love him but he drives me nuts. I've addressed the issues in our relationship; he is very clingy and lacks consideration towards my living situation (he will piss off my flatmate by staying for weeks at a time)..
He's also disorganised, sleeps past 11am, spends money frivolously and has no idea how to give someone space. I love him dearly, he's a good person, but I'm so tired of repeating myself to him. I was so angry with him this morning over something trivial and don't know what I should do at this stage.
We have a pattern -
1) He pisses me off
2) I shout at him telling him it's over and he cries
3) I feel guilty start / missing him then the whole cycle repeats
So I asked the i ching. What needs to be done with x?
32.2.3.6 > 35
I read this as a bad kind of endurance where I need to actually break it off with him (line 6)
Anyone have any thoughts?
He's also disorganised, sleeps past 11am, spends money frivolously and has no idea how to give someone space. I love him dearly, he's a good person, but I'm so tired of repeating myself to him. I was so angry with him this morning over something trivial and don't know what I should do at this stage.
We have a pattern -
1) He pisses me off
2) I shout at him telling him it's over and he cries
3) I feel guilty start / missing him then the whole cycle repeats
So I asked the i ching. What needs to be done with x?
32.2.3.6 > 35
I read this as a bad kind of endurance where I need to actually break it off with him (line 6)
Anyone have any thoughts?