Unexpectedly I wish to resign from my job. A job which up until a few days ago I was enjoying immensely although challenging and 'pushing my buttons' I wanted to push on through and hopefully learn the lessons I needed to learn for myself.
My wonderful boss went on holidays. The next day the centre director had a go at me about something and then the next day she had a go at me about something else. The first instance was uncalled for and the second, well I didn't exactly do anything wrong I could have just gone about things in a different way so I could understand why she wished to speak to me about it but definitely not in the way she did.
I work in the childcare industry and this newly appointed centre director (of 6 months) has never worked in the childcare industry at all. I'm not sure what her last job was but her staff management skills are less than poor as are her ethics towards staff overall. I felt humilated, belittled and treated like one of the children we care for - well I wouldn't treat the children like that but possibly she would.
I don't wish to work under such a person and as she is the highest boss in the place there is noone I can complain to about her behaviour. Well there is a parent committee but unfortunately I don't have access to them per se and being the newest member of staff, well they may just think it's me. After my shift yesterday morning I made a few phone calls and have a job interview on Monday, coincidentally less than a km from my present workplace and a potential interview in a couple of weeks.
Not that I wish to change jobs yet again but my thinking is, as I'm doing some very intensive inner work and I took my present position before I began this inner work and gained my present personal insights, this job maybe short lived and just helped me move forward in myself. At the same time I took this present job, my childrens behaviour towards me pushed me to take a good look at myself and start looking at the way I do things and maybe start to do things differently. Hopefully with a new energy and mindset a much more suitable bunch of people and job will come into my World.
Also when I've spoken the truth before in a job I was made out to be the one who was in the wrong and lost my job - easier to get rid of the one upsetting the status quo......
As soon as I get another job I intend to resign from this one. Originally my intention was to give the reason as the Centre Director but I wonder if it's even worth putting my energy into that.
What is the benefit of speaking the truth when I resign
46.5>48
Using the resource of The Well (resignation) to Push Upward.
Line 5 seems to suggest it will bring good fortune - either for me or the rest of the staff and maybe even the children..
I know other staff don't like the centre director either but noone wants to say anything in fear of them losing their job.
What is the benefit of just resigning and saying nothing about the Centre Director
13.4.5.6>36
Keeping things to myself Hex 36 keeps me in Harmony with myself and others.
Line 4 - noone can try to attack me if I don't say anything - which I guess may be her
Line 5 - I will find a job with the right people and my new boss will help me
Line 6 - no regrets about saying nothing
I do live in a fairly small community where there is every chance I could come across this woman again so if she loses her job or something negative comes from my honesty other people could also become involved though they know nothing about me and that make a inharmonious environment for myself.
Whatever happens I'm 99% sure I won't wish to remain working there even if some sort of resolution is taken.
Essentially she hasn't done anything that would require her to lose her job, possibly she may be asked to do further training in staff management.....so is it worth the potential angst for me.
My wonderful boss went on holidays. The next day the centre director had a go at me about something and then the next day she had a go at me about something else. The first instance was uncalled for and the second, well I didn't exactly do anything wrong I could have just gone about things in a different way so I could understand why she wished to speak to me about it but definitely not in the way she did.
I work in the childcare industry and this newly appointed centre director (of 6 months) has never worked in the childcare industry at all. I'm not sure what her last job was but her staff management skills are less than poor as are her ethics towards staff overall. I felt humilated, belittled and treated like one of the children we care for - well I wouldn't treat the children like that but possibly she would.
I don't wish to work under such a person and as she is the highest boss in the place there is noone I can complain to about her behaviour. Well there is a parent committee but unfortunately I don't have access to them per se and being the newest member of staff, well they may just think it's me. After my shift yesterday morning I made a few phone calls and have a job interview on Monday, coincidentally less than a km from my present workplace and a potential interview in a couple of weeks.
Not that I wish to change jobs yet again but my thinking is, as I'm doing some very intensive inner work and I took my present position before I began this inner work and gained my present personal insights, this job maybe short lived and just helped me move forward in myself. At the same time I took this present job, my childrens behaviour towards me pushed me to take a good look at myself and start looking at the way I do things and maybe start to do things differently. Hopefully with a new energy and mindset a much more suitable bunch of people and job will come into my World.
Also when I've spoken the truth before in a job I was made out to be the one who was in the wrong and lost my job - easier to get rid of the one upsetting the status quo......
As soon as I get another job I intend to resign from this one. Originally my intention was to give the reason as the Centre Director but I wonder if it's even worth putting my energy into that.
What is the benefit of speaking the truth when I resign
46.5>48
Using the resource of The Well (resignation) to Push Upward.
Line 5 seems to suggest it will bring good fortune - either for me or the rest of the staff and maybe even the children..
I know other staff don't like the centre director either but noone wants to say anything in fear of them losing their job.
What is the benefit of just resigning and saying nothing about the Centre Director
13.4.5.6>36
Keeping things to myself Hex 36 keeps me in Harmony with myself and others.
Line 4 - noone can try to attack me if I don't say anything - which I guess may be her
Line 5 - I will find a job with the right people and my new boss will help me
Line 6 - no regrets about saying nothing
I do live in a fairly small community where there is every chance I could come across this woman again so if she loses her job or something negative comes from my honesty other people could also become involved though they know nothing about me and that make a inharmonious environment for myself.
Whatever happens I'm 99% sure I won't wish to remain working there even if some sort of resolution is taken.
Essentially she hasn't done anything that would require her to lose her job, possibly she may be asked to do further training in staff management.....so is it worth the potential angst for me.