Hi. So today I asked Yi about this guy I have a huge crush on (that I shouldn't. I'll elaborate further.) I tried to interpret, but I would like insight from someone with more experience than myself.
So first the back story. The guy is old enough to be my father. I'm 21, he's 40. In fact he has a daughter my age. He is in the military and stationed pretty far away. I don't see him as much as I would like. (This is not even the real problem) However, when I do see him, I feel like our chemistry is unparalleled, and all the time he was away means nothing. This is all unspoken though because we are cousins. (I know, I know. Gross) But it's undeniable, especially the last time I saw him. He was being alot more direct than usual.
First I asked, What was our connection the day I last saw him? I got:
61.2 to 42
I took this to mean that I was right about my assumptions of his feelings...
Then I asked, Show me M current opinion of me, and got:
35.6 to 16
I took this to mean that he felt shame. Which is understandable I guess. I texted him a few days after he left (nothing flirty, I swear) and he kept referring to me as "little cousin" as if making a clear boundary I thought.
Finally, I asked, What can I do to make M feel that way about me again? (He will be visiting again) I got:
11.3 to 19
I'm not really sure about that one. I think it means patience. Don't be hasty. What do you think.
I almost left the cousin part out, but I thought it might be important... I know it's not normal, but I feel strongly about him. I apologize if this made anyone uncomfortable. Any insight would be most welcomed.
So first the back story. The guy is old enough to be my father. I'm 21, he's 40. In fact he has a daughter my age. He is in the military and stationed pretty far away. I don't see him as much as I would like. (This is not even the real problem) However, when I do see him, I feel like our chemistry is unparalleled, and all the time he was away means nothing. This is all unspoken though because we are cousins. (I know, I know. Gross) But it's undeniable, especially the last time I saw him. He was being alot more direct than usual.
First I asked, What was our connection the day I last saw him? I got:
61.2 to 42
I took this to mean that I was right about my assumptions of his feelings...
Then I asked, Show me M current opinion of me, and got:
35.6 to 16
I took this to mean that he felt shame. Which is understandable I guess. I texted him a few days after he left (nothing flirty, I swear) and he kept referring to me as "little cousin" as if making a clear boundary I thought.
Finally, I asked, What can I do to make M feel that way about me again? (He will be visiting again) I got:
11.3 to 19
I'm not really sure about that one. I think it means patience. Don't be hasty. What do you think.
I almost left the cousin part out, but I thought it might be important... I know it's not normal, but I feel strongly about him. I apologize if this made anyone uncomfortable. Any insight would be most welcomed.