I asked the Yi -- will Dude come over to my house again. I got 39.1.6 _Temporary Obstacles >> 37 _Extended Family
We had been dating casually (off and on for about a year) and he started talking to someone else about 3 weeks ago- but he couldn't break it off with me easily. Finally he broke down one night and said he needed time to figure out what he was going to do. I did not put up a fight but told him I cared for him and wanted to be with him if he so chose to be with me. That was a week ago and I haven't heard from him at all. (this is not uncommon, however, in our relationship - to not talk to each for several days or a week).
So my question - after thinking about 37 - Does this mean his family is the obstacle? Or does it mean that he will come back to me and we will have a more committed relationship? At first, I thought the later - that we would become closer and have a good balanced relationship. BUT - then I had a second thought that maybe his family was the obstacle. this, however, comes from a fear I have with our relationship because I am older than he is and he has said before that his only hesitation with me is precisely that regarding his family. He doesn't know how his family would accept me being 10 yrs older.
thought? Am I over thinking? Should I be asking a follow up question?
Appreciation in advance! http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frien...ilies/zen2.gif
Lorna
We had been dating casually (off and on for about a year) and he started talking to someone else about 3 weeks ago- but he couldn't break it off with me easily. Finally he broke down one night and said he needed time to figure out what he was going to do. I did not put up a fight but told him I cared for him and wanted to be with him if he so chose to be with me. That was a week ago and I haven't heard from him at all. (this is not uncommon, however, in our relationship - to not talk to each for several days or a week).
So my question - after thinking about 37 - Does this mean his family is the obstacle? Or does it mean that he will come back to me and we will have a more committed relationship? At first, I thought the later - that we would become closer and have a good balanced relationship. BUT - then I had a second thought that maybe his family was the obstacle. this, however, comes from a fear I have with our relationship because I am older than he is and he has said before that his only hesitation with me is precisely that regarding his family. He doesn't know how his family would accept me being 10 yrs older.
thought? Am I over thinking? Should I be asking a follow up question?
Appreciation in advance! http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frien...ilies/zen2.gif
Lorna