How can I prepare for his reaction? 56.3.4 to 23

Anyone who would like to give me your interpretation, I'' freaking myself out a bit here...& Funny I was just thinking about Hex 56.4 from someone else's post , & then I received 56.3.4 changing to 23 when I asked Yi the question "How can I prepare for L's reaction to me moving?" A few of you saw my previous post about being in an uncomfortable living situation...well next month I'm moving in with a female coworker & I am so excited! But I have not told my friend's father yet, because I am scared he's attached to me & will not understand why I want to move. (The house is dirty, I am out of sync with my friend, her father has been weird with me, & neither of them understand or appear to value my interests & lifestyle choices...Eating well & being a growth minded individual) so there seems like little to reason to stay...it's also been 15 months, I certaintly tried to make this work & they did help me get back on my feet....are these lines mirroring my fears, simply warning me to stay amicable lest I offend him, or am I misunderstanding? Thank you for your help!

56.3
'Traveller burns down his resting place.
Loses his young helper.
Constancy: danger.'

Don't impulsively complain or be negative with him or I'll ruin the relationship?

56.4
'Traveller in a place to stay,
Gains property and an axe.
My heart is not glad.'

This describes how I currently feel I believe...I'm so uncomfortable here & an affordable opportunity to leave has finally presented itself...

And 23 as the relating hexagram, strip away the fears or perhaps it simply describes the situation where I am getting rid of what has worn out (this home!!)