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Recontacting a brief fling? 64; 1.1.4

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Thinking of recontacting -- for a romantic purpose -- someone with whom there was a brief fling and then an argument a while ago, and no contact since.

Prospects? (WB translations)
64 Before Completion, unchanging.
"Before Completion. Success. But if the little fox, after nearly completing the crossing, gets his tail in the water, there is nothing that would further."
Hrm.

How should I approach if I want to maximize the prospects of success?
1.1.4 The Creative > 57 The Gentle
.1: "Hidden dragon. Do not act."
.4: "Wavering flight over the depths. No blame."

Interesting. The first reading has a kind of "yes, but" (if the fox gets its tail in the water -- problems) that is echoed in the second reading with a "no, but".... (don't act... but then again a kind of wavering, very tentative action might be fine).

I'm thinking a very subtle nudge to see if there's still interest might be appropriate? Just a hey, how's it going, type deal? No proposals or requests. And then seeing how it plays out?

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