I've recently started working with the I Ching, and of course started to bombard it with relationship related questions, haha. :)
I broke up with my ex in February (no regrets but I do miss him and still want to get back together later) and have talked to him here and there (my initiation) but not much.
About a month ago, I asked I Ching if my ex and I would reconcile and got Hex 58! I interpreted this as a good sign that we would.
Now since my ex's birthday is coming up... I asked 2 questions: "What will take place if I send a birthday message to him" and "What will take place if I DON'T send a birthday message"
Sending a birthday message: 14.2.6 > 55
Not sending a birthday message: 25.1.3.4 > 53
Looking at the 2, it seems sending a birthday message is clearly the recommended path to take as it has a much more positive outcome than not sending one.
However, I'm on the fence because I have some ego resistance to reaching out.
He never sent me a birthday message months ago. Also, I've reached out to him 2-3 times over the course of the year.. and he has disappointed me twice (first time he said he'd text me but didn't, then second time he suggested very excitedly that we should workout together but never followed up).
Given what has happened, I feel like "Why should I message him??" but I Ching indicates there would be success and I'd have help from the heavens.
What do you think? I don't really know what to do (his birthday is next week).
I broke up with my ex in February (no regrets but I do miss him and still want to get back together later) and have talked to him here and there (my initiation) but not much.
About a month ago, I asked I Ching if my ex and I would reconcile and got Hex 58! I interpreted this as a good sign that we would.
Now since my ex's birthday is coming up... I asked 2 questions: "What will take place if I send a birthday message to him" and "What will take place if I DON'T send a birthday message"
Sending a birthday message: 14.2.6 > 55
Not sending a birthday message: 25.1.3.4 > 53
Looking at the 2, it seems sending a birthday message is clearly the recommended path to take as it has a much more positive outcome than not sending one.
However, I'm on the fence because I have some ego resistance to reaching out.
He never sent me a birthday message months ago. Also, I've reached out to him 2-3 times over the course of the year.. and he has disappointed me twice (first time he said he'd text me but didn't, then second time he suggested very excitedly that we should workout together but never followed up).
Given what has happened, I feel like "Why should I message him??" but I Ching indicates there would be success and I'd have help from the heavens.
What do you think? I don't really know what to do (his birthday is next week).