(please excuse my english, I'm from Spain)
Hi all, hope you are all well.
I'd like to share a reading and I'd be grateful to have some help, opinion, insight...
A 4 years great love relationship, made us grow and enjoy. Like a "first love" but with the added benefits of age and experience. It went to "pause" mode a couple of times to do some readjustments and we restarted even better both times: a couple of steps higher and better.
From march 2019 a temporary job eated away most of our spare time to enjoy together and at the same time she needed to make a strong grow effort by herself (inner work, to become stronger and more selfconfident, etc)
Because of me being participating less and the strong need of her to do this growing and do it alone, it ended up, not in a new pause, but in a break, two months ago.
After two months being apart and scarce communication in order to respect the break, we met to talk about it. I had hope in that it will be a new pause that will bring us higher again, new things to learn once again, growing and keep going again. But she felt it was not a pause but a real break.
Then I asked her to please "keep the door slightly open", because we both think it is a very special relationship full of good things and experiences, mutual growing, joy, attraction, etc. and because I had seen very clearly what I can do better from my side and think it is possible to make it work very well; also because the work she's been doing with herself would change things from her side.
I've been thinking and meditating deeply until real causes (on my side) came to me like simple, naked truth, so I was confident enough when asking for another chance.
After the meeting, which left us both with a good feeling and showed that there was still love and attraction, I insisted "please do not completely close the door and consider it"
and I got a short and bogus answer from her "the summer aaaand...".
That's all I got, but well, it wasn't a "I said no, sorry but no"
After some days, I saw it was going to be a VERY difficult situation for me to deal with... I have to work on me as if it was the end, but at the same time have hope, stand-by, without a solid and clear agreement (OK, I choose to have hope! because I'd like to share my life with her)
So I asked "Advise from Master Yi about how to manage the situation in order to reach an enduring union with Xxx"
Yi answered 42.2 to 61
Hi all, hope you are all well.
I'd like to share a reading and I'd be grateful to have some help, opinion, insight...
A 4 years great love relationship, made us grow and enjoy. Like a "first love" but with the added benefits of age and experience. It went to "pause" mode a couple of times to do some readjustments and we restarted even better both times: a couple of steps higher and better.
From march 2019 a temporary job eated away most of our spare time to enjoy together and at the same time she needed to make a strong grow effort by herself (inner work, to become stronger and more selfconfident, etc)
Because of me being participating less and the strong need of her to do this growing and do it alone, it ended up, not in a new pause, but in a break, two months ago.
After two months being apart and scarce communication in order to respect the break, we met to talk about it. I had hope in that it will be a new pause that will bring us higher again, new things to learn once again, growing and keep going again. But she felt it was not a pause but a real break.
Then I asked her to please "keep the door slightly open", because we both think it is a very special relationship full of good things and experiences, mutual growing, joy, attraction, etc. and because I had seen very clearly what I can do better from my side and think it is possible to make it work very well; also because the work she's been doing with herself would change things from her side.
I've been thinking and meditating deeply until real causes (on my side) came to me like simple, naked truth, so I was confident enough when asking for another chance.
After the meeting, which left us both with a good feeling and showed that there was still love and attraction, I insisted "please do not completely close the door and consider it"
and I got a short and bogus answer from her "the summer aaaand...".
That's all I got, but well, it wasn't a "I said no, sorry but no"
After some days, I saw it was going to be a VERY difficult situation for me to deal with... I have to work on me as if it was the end, but at the same time have hope, stand-by, without a solid and clear agreement (OK, I choose to have hope! because I'd like to share my life with her)
So I asked "Advise from Master Yi about how to manage the situation in order to reach an enduring union with Xxx"
Yi answered 42.2 to 61