Thank you
Several months ago my father died ( my mom passed away twenty some years ago), about a month after this my partner and I had a huge row which resulted in us separating. I have nowhere to go or call home, but I am staying with my daughter and her partner for just a few more days. I then have the option ( my only apparent one) to visit a friend and her husband, ex colleagues that have said there may be a job available, quite a stressful one at times, ( I gave up work about 18 moths ago to take care of my partner who became mentally unwell) or to stay at my dads old and empty house whilst I wait for the probate and release of my inheritance to me which would enable me to buy a (very small) place I could call home. Apart from all the hurt and loss I really am not sure what to do or where to go, I would appreciate any reflections or insights .
I asked yi please to comment on my seriously considering going to the work situation and received 46 uc I read this as if I proceeded with this it would take incremental hard work and I would have to commit to the long haul,which I am not sure whether this would be good for me or whether I am capable of this ( not sure if my heart truly in it)
I asked about returning to my dads old house and received 31.5.5 to 15 possibly making myself vulnerable and visited by old ghosts ( which I dont like the sound of particularly at this moment)
Any help would be appreciated
Several months ago my father died ( my mom passed away twenty some years ago), about a month after this my partner and I had a huge row which resulted in us separating. I have nowhere to go or call home, but I am staying with my daughter and her partner for just a few more days. I then have the option ( my only apparent one) to visit a friend and her husband, ex colleagues that have said there may be a job available, quite a stressful one at times, ( I gave up work about 18 moths ago to take care of my partner who became mentally unwell) or to stay at my dads old and empty house whilst I wait for the probate and release of my inheritance to me which would enable me to buy a (very small) place I could call home. Apart from all the hurt and loss I really am not sure what to do or where to go, I would appreciate any reflections or insights .
I asked yi please to comment on my seriously considering going to the work situation and received 46 uc I read this as if I proceeded with this it would take incremental hard work and I would have to commit to the long haul,which I am not sure whether this would be good for me or whether I am capable of this ( not sure if my heart truly in it)
I asked about returning to my dads old house and received 31.5.5 to 15 possibly making myself vulnerable and visited by old ghosts ( which I dont like the sound of particularly at this moment)
Any help would be appreciated