Hi!I am a Spanish girl who is dating a Pakistani boy.We've known each other for 4 years now, we've been seeing each other for all these years,but for example it was possible that we would see each week for 3 months and then for 6 months there was a long pause when we didn't see each other due to heavy fighting. But we never lost contact at all.Initially the relationship was rather turbulent because of his difficult character and hisinconstant nature that wanted to close often because of his insecurity on his feelings.Now we have resumed the relationship since February and it seems that now things are going much better. He is much calmer and we get strangely in agreement ... apart from a small discussion due to my lack of sensitivity we have never quarreled, and he even begins to be more possibilist about his true feelings and a possible future together.I am starting to fall in love as I was at the beginning, perhaps with less intensity but with more desire for stability and a desire for certainty about our future: now really my greatest desire is to settle down with him and I asked the I Ching if it was possible .The result was the hexagram 53 with mutant line 2 changing in the hexagram 57.Now it seems to me to be quite positive and to suggest that things will settle down patiently.The main problem is that he is Pakistani and in the past he denied a future together mainly because of his family rules that required him to marry a Pakistani woman chosen by the family.Now with the changing situation he seems to me more emotionally involved but I would like to know if love will finally overcome the obstacles and we will succeed in putting ourselves together seriously.
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