Hi everyone,
I am recently rather bothered about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. They were in a long term relationship which ended some time mid last year, and we got together few months ago, everything was happy until I realized they have been keeping in contact because she would still confide in him. I kept it in until few days ago I talked to him about this and he told me things in his position, that it's not possible to totally ignore her but he cares for her just as a friend. He gave me assurance and promised to lessen the contact, and I discontinued the topic.
I asked I-Ching
What is my position in his heart? 26.3 to 41.
At first sight I kind of focused on the 41 decreasing and I thought my position in his heart is decreasing.
However I came across an interpretation of from one of the threads: If you acquire something beautiful or precious, you also acquire the worries, duties and care that go with it. Accept them as being part of it, do not see them as negative but as essential parts of your life. A careless life without possessions can be alluring, but a life with care and possessions, and the ability to cope with them, is complete.
Is this applicable for my type of question?
What is her position in his heart? 48 uc
It speaks about nourishment and resource, I feel maybe she is someone whom have deep connections with him because of their past which will not change?
How will we progress after the talk that day? 1.2.4 to 37
This seems positive to me because of 37.
Appreciate any insights, thanks
I am recently rather bothered about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. They were in a long term relationship which ended some time mid last year, and we got together few months ago, everything was happy until I realized they have been keeping in contact because she would still confide in him. I kept it in until few days ago I talked to him about this and he told me things in his position, that it's not possible to totally ignore her but he cares for her just as a friend. He gave me assurance and promised to lessen the contact, and I discontinued the topic.
I asked I-Ching
What is my position in his heart? 26.3 to 41.
At first sight I kind of focused on the 41 decreasing and I thought my position in his heart is decreasing.
However I came across an interpretation of from one of the threads: If you acquire something beautiful or precious, you also acquire the worries, duties and care that go with it. Accept them as being part of it, do not see them as negative but as essential parts of your life. A careless life without possessions can be alluring, but a life with care and possessions, and the ability to cope with them, is complete.
Is this applicable for my type of question?
What is her position in his heart? 48 uc
It speaks about nourishment and resource, I feel maybe she is someone whom have deep connections with him because of their past which will not change?
How will we progress after the talk that day? 1.2.4 to 37
This seems positive to me because of 37.
Appreciate any insights, thanks