Good evening/good morning! Hoping for some insight to help me let go of an admittedly silly situation.
Had a really nice conversation with my crush a few weeks ago, and now ... he's avoiding/ignoring me, or else looking like he wants to throw up whenever he sees me! Ok, maybe a slight exaggeration, but he certainly doesn't look happy. And I have no idea what I did!?! I'm generally pretty quiet and easy to get along with--people either like me or don't even notice me. Rarely dislike me though. A friend suggested it's because he picked up on my feelings for him. Which is possible, but again, I'm not exactly bold! Sigh. I know I shouldn't care, but darn it, it hurts and I feel embarrassed. We barely know each other (that conversation was our first and apparently last), so definitely don't feel comfortable asking him. I have to see him every day.
"What did I do to make x dislike me?"
--4 unchanging--
I'll never know? I don't need to know? I did something foolish without knowing it? I'm being foolish even worrying about it?
"How should I proceed regarding our relationship?"
--15.3.4 to 16--
Don't assume it's all about me? Just keep being kind and humble and low key because that's the right thing to do. And don't concern myself with his behavior or with trying to win him over.
And even though it goes against my nature to flat out ignore someone, I'm feeling like I need to, to protect my heart. So:
"What would happen if I completely ignored him from now on?"
--24.1 to 2--
Returning from an error of no great extent/ returning myself to the correct path. No remorse ... Hmmm, not sure what the error would be here. Ignoring him? Or liking him in the first place?
Thank you in advance :)
Had a really nice conversation with my crush a few weeks ago, and now ... he's avoiding/ignoring me, or else looking like he wants to throw up whenever he sees me! Ok, maybe a slight exaggeration, but he certainly doesn't look happy. And I have no idea what I did!?! I'm generally pretty quiet and easy to get along with--people either like me or don't even notice me. Rarely dislike me though. A friend suggested it's because he picked up on my feelings for him. Which is possible, but again, I'm not exactly bold! Sigh. I know I shouldn't care, but darn it, it hurts and I feel embarrassed. We barely know each other (that conversation was our first and apparently last), so definitely don't feel comfortable asking him. I have to see him every day.
"What did I do to make x dislike me?"
--4 unchanging--
I'll never know? I don't need to know? I did something foolish without knowing it? I'm being foolish even worrying about it?
"How should I proceed regarding our relationship?"
--15.3.4 to 16--
Don't assume it's all about me? Just keep being kind and humble and low key because that's the right thing to do. And don't concern myself with his behavior or with trying to win him over.
And even though it goes against my nature to flat out ignore someone, I'm feeling like I need to, to protect my heart. So:
"What would happen if I completely ignored him from now on?"
--24.1 to 2--
Returning from an error of no great extent/ returning myself to the correct path. No remorse ... Hmmm, not sure what the error would be here. Ignoring him? Or liking him in the first place?
Thank you in advance :)