My question was: Advice for me to get closer to X?
Answer: 45.6 changing to 12
Gathering changing to Blocked
X is somebody I work with and speak to in passing but my heart craves a deeper connection with him and it seems like this feeling is mutual but for a whole long list of reasons I'm finding it hard to talk to him the way I would with someone I didn't have such a strong attraction to.
I also heard recently that X has a girlfriend and I technically have a boyfriend (but we see so little of eachother it feels like I'm single) and the company we work for don't allow romantic relationships between co workers.
Is this line advising me to properly break up with my partner and process my emotions before I can connect eith someone new? We have been going through a horrible break up process for 8 months but every now and again I get false hopes for us being together again.
Is it telling me I don't have a chance with X because he has a girlfriend and I need to just accept that the connection is what it is and can't be more and let myself be sad about that for a bit?
Or is it telling me to be more emotionally open with X? Maybe if I wasn't trying to hide my feelings for him he would feel comfortable talking to me more and we could develop more of a friendship. I previously asked "how should I be with X?" And received 52.3.6 (LOL because I am hiding my feels and can't tell if Yi is advising for or against)
It is it just reflecting the situation: it's blocked from developing further right now but i want to gather together with him and be friends?
Is 52.3.6 just reflecting that I'm hiding my feels rather than advising? I'm relatively new to I Ching and I feel like I haven't learnt it's language enough to get this
I know this probably seems a stupid question and sorry it's so long but I would be so grateful if anyone can help
Also does anyone know how do I view my old posts please?
Thank you :)
Answer: 45.6 changing to 12
Gathering changing to Blocked
X is somebody I work with and speak to in passing but my heart craves a deeper connection with him and it seems like this feeling is mutual but for a whole long list of reasons I'm finding it hard to talk to him the way I would with someone I didn't have such a strong attraction to.
I also heard recently that X has a girlfriend and I technically have a boyfriend (but we see so little of eachother it feels like I'm single) and the company we work for don't allow romantic relationships between co workers.
Is this line advising me to properly break up with my partner and process my emotions before I can connect eith someone new? We have been going through a horrible break up process for 8 months but every now and again I get false hopes for us being together again.
Is it telling me I don't have a chance with X because he has a girlfriend and I need to just accept that the connection is what it is and can't be more and let myself be sad about that for a bit?
Or is it telling me to be more emotionally open with X? Maybe if I wasn't trying to hide my feelings for him he would feel comfortable talking to me more and we could develop more of a friendship. I previously asked "how should I be with X?" And received 52.3.6 (LOL because I am hiding my feels and can't tell if Yi is advising for or against)
It is it just reflecting the situation: it's blocked from developing further right now but i want to gather together with him and be friends?
Is 52.3.6 just reflecting that I'm hiding my feels rather than advising? I'm relatively new to I Ching and I feel like I haven't learnt it's language enough to get this
I know this probably seems a stupid question and sorry it's so long but I would be so grateful if anyone can help
Also does anyone know how do I view my old posts please?
Thank you :)