I owe someone an apology. I still feel wronged by them but don't feel that justifies my bad behavior. So I want to apologize for my part despite how I feel about theirs even though I don't necessarily want to maintain a friendship. Maybe my question seems straightforward. My thought behind this is do I wait until I have mentally sorted out what I think about everything in case they have something to say, or do you say you're sorry the moment you know you're sorry?
Is hexagram 4 calling me out for trying to know everything before just simply apologizing?
What I gather from the oracle is to do it now. Also, the image sounds like an apology, no?
THE IMAGE
Wind and thunder: the image of INCREASE
Thus the superior man:
If he sees good he imitates it;
If he has faults, he rids himself of them.
Is hexagram 4 calling me out for trying to know everything before just simply apologizing?
What I gather from the oracle is to do it now. Also, the image sounds like an apology, no?
THE IMAGE
Wind and thunder: the image of INCREASE
Thus the superior man:
If he sees good he imitates it;
If he has faults, he rids himself of them.