47.3.4 > 48 .... what is the feeling now?

A friend of mine, B, texted me that he needed to see me and talk. He mentioned he was “leaving the hosptial”. He came over and told me that one of our friends had a heart attack was put into an induced coma. He was very upset. I hugged him and didn’t say a lot. I said the usual “he will come through this. We have to pray for his family for their strength”... etc. which is truly how I feel. In these situations I don’t tend to become over-emotional but quiet and calm. So We sat quietly for a few minutes and he he said he needed to just go home. It was like he was expecting me to “act” a certain way or something. I’m just not sure. It didn’t end bad it just ended.

As back ground - B and I have been in a hexagram 54 relationship for over a year. We go from hot to cold, anger to love, etc. it’s a rollercoaster. Currently we are in a calm state of easy going interactions after a huge blow out fight last week.

So I asked first - what was all that and got hexagram 20.5.6 changing to hexagram 2.
I kinda think that was just exactly how I reacted - detached and calm. Trying to be strong.

But I just have this awkward nagging that there was something that I “didn’t do” or something. So I asked “how is he feeling about me now” and got hexagram 47.3.4 changing to hexagram 48.

That one I don’t get. I don’t feel that I oppressed him or anything. The interaction lasted all of 30 mins maybe and a lot of it was in silence. Maybe was my detachment received by him as “cold” and therefore the oppression comes into play ??

Any insights? I’m really confused.