Hi all, I lived with my girlfriend for 3 years until we end this relationship last year. Two weeks later she found a new guy and told me she is in love she is happy.. (ok good for her), but she came back in september and asked me to give her 10 000 because she paid a lot of thing when we were together and said she sacrified 3 years of her life for me...
Today she tried to manipulate me and blackmail me with a lawyer.. I have seen a lawyer too and he told me that I'm untouchable because I have no trace of any money on my account from her. But I recognized (with my moral) she helped me sometimes when I was in the need so I said to her " OK I can promess you 2000 but not more ". I made the maths, and find that indeed I should give back those 2000 but not 10 000...
Now she really try all the possible things to piss me off and blackmailed me with "man of the law" even if she is sure to loose... because 2000 is not enough, she clearly want those 10 000 So I asked the Yi if I should pay back all the " debt " she asked me and got 41.1 > 4 To me The YI said I don't have to give all the money because it is mad and foolish (hex 4) sacrifice myself and giving back 2000 is enough...
What do you think about that ? Is the Yi suggest me that diminishing myself will be fool ? The YI talk about sacrifice but with line one I think it's not a good sacrifice to make... because my ex-girlfriend just want to extract benefit from me like a evil person !
Thank for your answer !
Today she tried to manipulate me and blackmail me with a lawyer.. I have seen a lawyer too and he told me that I'm untouchable because I have no trace of any money on my account from her. But I recognized (with my moral) she helped me sometimes when I was in the need so I said to her " OK I can promess you 2000 but not more ". I made the maths, and find that indeed I should give back those 2000 but not 10 000...
Now she really try all the possible things to piss me off and blackmailed me with "man of the law" even if she is sure to loose... because 2000 is not enough, she clearly want those 10 000 So I asked the Yi if I should pay back all the " debt " she asked me and got 41.1 > 4 To me The YI said I don't have to give all the money because it is mad and foolish (hex 4) sacrifice myself and giving back 2000 is enough...
What do you think about that ? Is the Yi suggest me that diminishing myself will be fool ? The YI talk about sacrifice but with line one I think it's not a good sacrifice to make... because my ex-girlfriend just want to extract benefit from me like a evil person !
Thank for your answer !