This is about a (bad) boy:)) Long story..long: we are colleagues, attraction was quite obvious from the start, but I wanted smh serious he wanted casual sex. Talking about this I somewhat unknowingly hurt his (HUGE HUGE) ego partly by not wanting to sleep with him partly by overreacting and making him feel unwanted. From the next day on, no response to any text, two weeks later he is in a relationship with a girl i knew he found cute (I talked to him about her). Well he still is in that relationship for almost a year, and we are again working in the same group. So after what happened I started ignoring him (ugly looks and no hellos back) so after a while he started to act like me too.
So what would I possibly want more from this situation you could ask. Well, I dont know exactly. I mean I know he is kind of a dick (at least in the first months of their relationship I know he kinda took advantage of her more than he was IN LOVE or something- things could have changed as with time we tend to attach) + the way he treated me out of frustration. So although he can be a dick, it is one I didnt get:))
I guess when something doesnt happen although it was reciprocal, you are left wondering what could have been (not even in the long run, but even just in that moment). Of course, I remained with a curiosity. This is explained partly by the fact that I hadnt met anyone since, as opposed to him.
I asked IChing about the dinamics between us around this time, and the readings matched the ugly looks/avoidance/disinterest (honest disinterest from him, apparently not so honest from me).
Two of the readings have left me wondering as I view them in different ways and I dont know which way too choose. I wanted second opinions before I say my own, just to see how others view the readings at first glancd.
How does he view me? As in what goes through his mind when around: 17.1 to 45
Is there smh I can do to regain his attention? 48 uc
Mind you I asked this not -necessarily- bc I would want to reattract his attention for blindly lust/longing for him but.. I have my ego that he hurt too.
Thank you!
So what would I possibly want more from this situation you could ask. Well, I dont know exactly. I mean I know he is kind of a dick (at least in the first months of their relationship I know he kinda took advantage of her more than he was IN LOVE or something- things could have changed as with time we tend to attach) + the way he treated me out of frustration. So although he can be a dick, it is one I didnt get:))
I guess when something doesnt happen although it was reciprocal, you are left wondering what could have been (not even in the long run, but even just in that moment). Of course, I remained with a curiosity. This is explained partly by the fact that I hadnt met anyone since, as opposed to him.
I asked IChing about the dinamics between us around this time, and the readings matched the ugly looks/avoidance/disinterest (honest disinterest from him, apparently not so honest from me).
Two of the readings have left me wondering as I view them in different ways and I dont know which way too choose. I wanted second opinions before I say my own, just to see how others view the readings at first glancd.
How does he view me? As in what goes through his mind when around: 17.1 to 45
Is there smh I can do to regain his attention? 48 uc
Mind you I asked this not -necessarily- bc I would want to reattract his attention for blindly lust/longing for him but.. I have my ego that he hurt too.
Thank you!