Hello again!
I met a guy some months ago whom I found very attractive. Our working fields are similar & he is fairly well-known in it. I also know that we have shared values, interests and tastes, so I decided to get closer to him in person & tried to go to his hangouts and participate in the events he went. Our last meeting went really well: he came to sit on my table and randomly talked with me while we were both excited. It was four months ago and I didnt manage to see him after that.
Now Im thinking about finding a way to be part of his social circle and seeing him again.Maybe you think thats too much effort. It can be. However, this type of socializing is convenient for me because of shared tastes and field. Im likely to meet more people with similar minds, and tend to like the hangouts.
I asked: How close will I get to X if I pursue this shared interests and events?
The answer: 57.4.5 > 50
Hexagram 57: Subtle Penetration- Subtly penetrating means becoming part of something, or someone. As you allow things to shape you, you also reach a place where you can shape them.
Im going to find my place in his circle little by little if I choose a friendly approach that gains others trust and makes them consider me a member of group. Then Ill have the power to stand out without losing confidence & respect.
Line 4: "Regrets vanish. In the field, taking three kinds of game."
Line 5: "Constancy, good fortune, regrets vanish. Nothing that does not bear fruit. With no beginning, there is completion. Before threshing, three days. After threshing, three days. Good fortune."
By keeping on developing friendships in our shared circles, I will be well recognized and that compensates for the early delay. Its also a good way to get close to him.
Hexagram 50: The Cauldron- "The vessel. Creating success from the source. Good fortune."
My efforts will lead to prosperity, whether its a relationship with this guy, or the new things I'll achieve through this journey.
Ill appreciate your comments.
I met a guy some months ago whom I found very attractive. Our working fields are similar & he is fairly well-known in it. I also know that we have shared values, interests and tastes, so I decided to get closer to him in person & tried to go to his hangouts and participate in the events he went. Our last meeting went really well: he came to sit on my table and randomly talked with me while we were both excited. It was four months ago and I didnt manage to see him after that.
Now Im thinking about finding a way to be part of his social circle and seeing him again.Maybe you think thats too much effort. It can be. However, this type of socializing is convenient for me because of shared tastes and field. Im likely to meet more people with similar minds, and tend to like the hangouts.
I asked: How close will I get to X if I pursue this shared interests and events?
The answer: 57.4.5 > 50
Hexagram 57: Subtle Penetration- Subtly penetrating means becoming part of something, or someone. As you allow things to shape you, you also reach a place where you can shape them.
Im going to find my place in his circle little by little if I choose a friendly approach that gains others trust and makes them consider me a member of group. Then Ill have the power to stand out without losing confidence & respect.
Line 4: "Regrets vanish. In the field, taking three kinds of game."
Line 5: "Constancy, good fortune, regrets vanish. Nothing that does not bear fruit. With no beginning, there is completion. Before threshing, three days. After threshing, three days. Good fortune."
By keeping on developing friendships in our shared circles, I will be well recognized and that compensates for the early delay. Its also a good way to get close to him.
Hexagram 50: The Cauldron- "The vessel. Creating success from the source. Good fortune."
My efforts will lead to prosperity, whether its a relationship with this guy, or the new things I'll achieve through this journey.
Ill appreciate your comments.