Hello
I met a guy last year & sensed the potential of great connection and attraction between us from the start.
I texted him, he showed interest and our relationship -which was intended to be casual at the time- began. After a few months of mixed signals, he admitted that he had a girlfriend and that he was sorry and ashamed for his behavior. I was very heartbroken as I was falling in love with him. I cut all contacts. He texted me after a month and we restarted chatting. I realized that being in contact was very hard for me while trying to be just friends without the possibility of getting romantic because of his partner.
Since, I've tried to cut things several times, only to start chatting again (he has been the one who initiated most of the time). Now I'm not as emotional as I was during the first months. I love this guy and can't resist communicating with him, though I've did my best not to pass the limits of friendship. Some flirtation occurred, yes, but that's all. And I know being in romantic relationship with a taken guy is harmful to my emotional well being and try hard to prevent so. However I can't help myself dreaming about getting romantic/sexual with him...
I got hexagram 64 (Not Yet Across) changing to 34 (Great Vigour); in other words, 64.1.3.6 to 34, in matters of our relationship. What do you think about that? Where is going this relationship?
I met a guy last year & sensed the potential of great connection and attraction between us from the start.
I texted him, he showed interest and our relationship -which was intended to be casual at the time- began. After a few months of mixed signals, he admitted that he had a girlfriend and that he was sorry and ashamed for his behavior. I was very heartbroken as I was falling in love with him. I cut all contacts. He texted me after a month and we restarted chatting. I realized that being in contact was very hard for me while trying to be just friends without the possibility of getting romantic because of his partner.
Since, I've tried to cut things several times, only to start chatting again (he has been the one who initiated most of the time). Now I'm not as emotional as I was during the first months. I love this guy and can't resist communicating with him, though I've did my best not to pass the limits of friendship. Some flirtation occurred, yes, but that's all. And I know being in romantic relationship with a taken guy is harmful to my emotional well being and try hard to prevent so. However I can't help myself dreaming about getting romantic/sexual with him...
I got hexagram 64 (Not Yet Across) changing to 34 (Great Vigour); in other words, 64.1.3.6 to 34, in matters of our relationship. What do you think about that? Where is going this relationship?