Hello,
I was hoping that maybe some of you could share your insights for my reading and my situation as my own individual readings tend to be read in the light of desires rather realities (if you know what i mean!).
Short story: 2 months ago my long-term partner broke up with me, so we had to get rid of our flat, i have left the country and now i found out that he started seeing someone else very very soon (the first things happened first days in after the break up when they were on work holiday together) He left saying he loves me but love is not enough, got back from holiday saying that this relationship is certainly over. Recently, I asked if he was thinking of getting back together since i was, and been told he is with someone new. There were a few lies involved, he didn't tell me and told our friends not to tell me about the new person. I am not going to lie, I still love the person and some tarot readings were showing he still loves me too. I am feeling probably delusional, so I decided to cast for these questions:
What is really happening between me and him?
HEX 53 unchanging - gradual development.
FRom reading other posts about this hex, someone was saying that it has never lead to a positive results in the relationship questions, it shows some imbalance in people's intentions/levels/etc. Also, that the gradual movement towards union is within the male here and well.. he is with someone else. Or does this hexagram imply that we are gradually developing as a union potentially in the future through our hardships (ok, i now i getting a bit into a dream world here). Or could it be gradual development towards individual growths? Should I just leave and see what all this drama unfolds too?
And second question as I feel completely exhausted by all this situation was:
What should I take from all this situation with him?
HEX 15.4 --> 62
"Noble one has integrity, is at one with himself and with reality, knows and doesn't forget what is needed" Would it be that I need to stop dreaming of some magical reunion and face reality and start from there? It maybe seems to potentially suggest taking my life to my own hands? For instance I am very uncertain if I should move back or try another country still hoping for potential reunion if i come back. This suggestion to be realistic by Lisa has been pretty on point:
"What you see is what you get; you can believe what you see/hear, etc. (Lisa)"
Yet I am very confused by the advice of the changing line 4.
Would be great if anyone is happy to give some advice/insights/their own experiences with similar situations and these HEX. Thank you so much! <3
I was hoping that maybe some of you could share your insights for my reading and my situation as my own individual readings tend to be read in the light of desires rather realities (if you know what i mean!).
Short story: 2 months ago my long-term partner broke up with me, so we had to get rid of our flat, i have left the country and now i found out that he started seeing someone else very very soon (the first things happened first days in after the break up when they were on work holiday together) He left saying he loves me but love is not enough, got back from holiday saying that this relationship is certainly over. Recently, I asked if he was thinking of getting back together since i was, and been told he is with someone new. There were a few lies involved, he didn't tell me and told our friends not to tell me about the new person. I am not going to lie, I still love the person and some tarot readings were showing he still loves me too. I am feeling probably delusional, so I decided to cast for these questions:
What is really happening between me and him?
HEX 53 unchanging - gradual development.
FRom reading other posts about this hex, someone was saying that it has never lead to a positive results in the relationship questions, it shows some imbalance in people's intentions/levels/etc. Also, that the gradual movement towards union is within the male here and well.. he is with someone else. Or does this hexagram imply that we are gradually developing as a union potentially in the future through our hardships (ok, i now i getting a bit into a dream world here). Or could it be gradual development towards individual growths? Should I just leave and see what all this drama unfolds too?
And second question as I feel completely exhausted by all this situation was:
What should I take from all this situation with him?
HEX 15.4 --> 62
"Noble one has integrity, is at one with himself and with reality, knows and doesn't forget what is needed" Would it be that I need to stop dreaming of some magical reunion and face reality and start from there? It maybe seems to potentially suggest taking my life to my own hands? For instance I am very uncertain if I should move back or try another country still hoping for potential reunion if i come back. This suggestion to be realistic by Lisa has been pretty on point:
"What you see is what you get; you can believe what you see/hear, etc. (Lisa)"
Yet I am very confused by the advice of the changing line 4.
Would be great if anyone is happy to give some advice/insights/their own experiences with similar situations and these HEX. Thank you so much! <3