Hi, everyone! This is my first post, and I hope I will receive some guidance concerning my questions. I would appreciate it so so much! I've fallen deeply in love with a man in January, our relationship started very passionate and he said he was falling in love too, but something made him pull away emotionally, saying he was not sure (we were long distance, about 80 miles, he had to leave the country a few times a year, different cultures, at least that's what he said). However, he changed his mind and asked for a chance and that he wants to make this work. He was acting hot and cold and said he had some trouble. I asked an older female friend of his for details, to help, and asked for privacy, and unfortunately she told him about this, while telling me to keep it between us, as he might get upset. Shortly we broke up (I did), as he became very distant after I talked and met her. She told me he might leave the country in a couple months, not 2 years as he was having some issues. Even if I broke things, it was out of frustration. I was deeply in love and hope he'd fight for me. An extremely stressful period was to follow (3 months)for him. His female friend called from time to time to ask if we had spoken and started to tell me to forget him. I am not sure of her (good) intentions.We broke up at the beginning of May. I still am deeply in love and suffering so much! He won't speak to me, but still has me on social media. Last time we spoke, it was more than a month ago, when I visited him and said he can't be with anyone. Before that, he said he wanted us to make a try then changed his mind in days. I've never been more devastated in my life about this break up and feel guilty for going to his friend. Also I pressed him 1-2 weeks before the break up for more attention. A friend of mine said he probably got fed up and gave up. I also blocked his female friend on social media, not sure it was a good idea now, but it hurt me to see her.These are my questions. Please feel free to make your pick and comment on whichever you like. Thank you so much! ////1. What is keeping him from being with me? 47.5 > 40 /////2. What can I to to increase chances of reconciliation? 20.3.6 > 39 /////3. What if I contact him? 18.2.3 > 23 ////4. Will he contact me? 53.3 > 20 ////5. What are his feelings for me at the present? 19.1 > 7 ////6. How can I convince him to make another try? 18.2.4 > 56
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