Hi! I will try to post one of my answers of iching in case somebody could share some thoughts.
My guestion was about a relationship (unfortunately). Me and my (ex) partner we are trying to fix our relationship but for me seems to be so difficult and I'm so scared that I will destroy everything.
I asked what could I do so as he loves me deeply:
Iching answered with changing lines 5 and 6 of Hexagram 41 to hexagram 60
I think all the answer has to do with my emotions, I can't control myself.
Especially at hexagram 41 "
My guestion was about a relationship (unfortunately). Me and my (ex) partner we are trying to fix our relationship but for me seems to be so difficult and I'm so scared that I will destroy everything.
I asked what could I do so as he loves me deeply:
Iching answered with changing lines 5 and 6 of Hexagram 41 to hexagram 60
I think all the answer has to do with my emotions, I can't control myself.
Especially at hexagram 41 "
the superior man controls his anger and restrains his instincts" (indeed I have anger inside me because he was the reason that we broke up), at hexagram 60 "
the superior man creates number and measure, and examines the nature of virtue and correct conduct. "
Line 5 of hexagram 41 shows that somebody increases someone.. perhaps I should increase him
Line 6 of hexagram 41 I think it advices me to increase him but not decrease myself. It furthers to undertake steps towards him but I should not expect much.
All in all, I believe that the answer is referred to my behavior.
I would really appreciate if anyone experienced could help me. Thank you!:)
Line 5 of hexagram 41 shows that somebody increases someone.. perhaps I should increase him
Line 6 of hexagram 41 I think it advices me to increase him but not decrease myself. It furthers to undertake steps towards him but I should not expect much.
All in all, I believe that the answer is referred to my behavior.
I would really appreciate if anyone experienced could help me. Thank you!:)