Hi everyone! I'm hoping you could help offer a bit of clarity on a dating situation I'm in... I've been seeing someone for the past two months, and from the get-go it was established that this person had just come out of several relationships and needed some time to explore single life. I wasn't quite ready to jump into a relationship myself so it seemed to be a good situation... Since, we've been seeing each other frequently and over time feelings have developed (from my side anyway) - always dangerous territory. I've been thinking about whether to nip it in the bud now before I get too caught up and have things decay and end on a sour note. To end it on a high and leave each other to be really free and explore other things without feeling some sense of attachment to the other. I also like him now to the point where it'll make me uncomfortable to know he's seeing other people... I asked the I ching: What should I do about this person? I got lines 19.1.2 changing to 2 and am unsure as to how to interpret it. I feel like 19 signified the fun we had and the blooming of the romance - but we are now in the 8th month (1st of August!!) and misfortune is due to set in. But as I read hexagram 2, I feel like it's advising me to take on a passive demeanour? So despite me thinking I should end things now with him...maybe I should hold off and let things naturally run their course. If you could offer any other explanations or clarity that would be amazing! All readings appreciated :)
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