Hello Iching community,
I am hoping that maybe you could help me to confirm and correct my insights into the readings that I cast.
A short background: me and my ex partner split up a few weeks ago after a long term relationship, due to some difficulties connected to miscommunication and misunderstanding, but also due to some issues of anxiety, confidence and trust that I had. We both greatly loved and cared for each other, but during the last argument he said enough and decided to end the relationship saying that we became too dependant on each other. He has moved out from our house and I am in the mode of moving on but because this relationship was so dear to me I am wondering if there is anything I can do.
So I asked:
Is mine and his relationship certainly over? --> H 52.4.6 Individuality.
My insights and some other readings seem to suggest that there is stillness or stability as according to Lise and yes it is certainly over. The lines suggest I should leave it still and move on or move my mind away from trying to find a resolution. However, I somehow get that there are little things that could suggest that with persistence on those little things the relationship could not be over?
Is there anything i can do to get back with x? --> H 2.5.6
In the context of the break up initiated by X I get that if there is anything to do is to agree with the decision like a mere. The line number 5 also suggests: "Accept life the way it is and cherish it, then any life will be a good life. Make clear choices: do - with joy, or choose not to do - with joy." I guess this is saying that all I can do is to accept the break up and this could be a way to reconciliation? Or am I wrong here? And to continue this will lead to 56 good fortune through persistence.
It would be great to receive your insights on this reading, it seems quite clear to me that nothing can be really done, but if you can see something else in it please do let me know.
Thank you so much for your help and time reading this!
I am hoping that maybe you could help me to confirm and correct my insights into the readings that I cast.
A short background: me and my ex partner split up a few weeks ago after a long term relationship, due to some difficulties connected to miscommunication and misunderstanding, but also due to some issues of anxiety, confidence and trust that I had. We both greatly loved and cared for each other, but during the last argument he said enough and decided to end the relationship saying that we became too dependant on each other. He has moved out from our house and I am in the mode of moving on but because this relationship was so dear to me I am wondering if there is anything I can do.
So I asked:
Is mine and his relationship certainly over? --> H 52.4.6 Individuality.
My insights and some other readings seem to suggest that there is stillness or stability as according to Lise and yes it is certainly over. The lines suggest I should leave it still and move on or move my mind away from trying to find a resolution. However, I somehow get that there are little things that could suggest that with persistence on those little things the relationship could not be over?
Is there anything i can do to get back with x? --> H 2.5.6
In the context of the break up initiated by X I get that if there is anything to do is to agree with the decision like a mere. The line number 5 also suggests: "Accept life the way it is and cherish it, then any life will be a good life. Make clear choices: do - with joy, or choose not to do - with joy." I guess this is saying that all I can do is to accept the break up and this could be a way to reconciliation? Or am I wrong here? And to continue this will lead to 56 good fortune through persistence.
It would be great to receive your insights on this reading, it seems quite clear to me that nothing can be really done, but if you can see something else in it please do let me know.
Thank you so much for your help and time reading this!