Recently had a second disconcerting experience with someone.
On initial meeting I took their strongly friendly overtures at face value, but then suddenly they started last minute cancellations and no rain-checks. Fine I thought I'll just let it go.
Next after quite a long time, the person reappears into my life as if they are a long lost best friend. I try to keep a distance, it's difficult, so I enter into engagement again. Then zoop, out of the blue an equally sudden and strong distancing. My guess is, this person is a networker and that's their main motivation. But I feel perhaps they are more moody and complex than they pretend to be on a social level.
Ask her what's going on? 52.1-22 - no I think not.
How does this person view me? 12 UC
Perhaps has made a judgement about me. Did not like that I was not willing to be as open and friendly the second time and took umbrage. Maybe.
Am I in harmony with my Dao in my way of being true to myself and relating to her?
12.2.6-47 I think so.
I'm quite happy for people to remove themselves from my life. I'm keen not to have strong ties with people who have attached themselves to me. I want to focus my energy on a few key friends who actually care about me, in the heart ❤️ sense.
On initial meeting I took their strongly friendly overtures at face value, but then suddenly they started last minute cancellations and no rain-checks. Fine I thought I'll just let it go.
Next after quite a long time, the person reappears into my life as if they are a long lost best friend. I try to keep a distance, it's difficult, so I enter into engagement again. Then zoop, out of the blue an equally sudden and strong distancing. My guess is, this person is a networker and that's their main motivation. But I feel perhaps they are more moody and complex than they pretend to be on a social level.
Ask her what's going on? 52.1-22 - no I think not.
How does this person view me? 12 UC
Perhaps has made a judgement about me. Did not like that I was not willing to be as open and friendly the second time and took umbrage. Maybe.
Am I in harmony with my Dao in my way of being true to myself and relating to her?
12.2.6-47 I think so.
I'm quite happy for people to remove themselves from my life. I'm keen not to have strong ties with people who have attached themselves to me. I want to focus my energy on a few key friends who actually care about me, in the heart ❤️ sense.