Dear All,
I met a person online and we talked about meeting personnaly when he is back in town. I don't want to be too pushy, I hesitate to remind him the date. I asked the oracle: What would be the effect if I take the initiative and invite him?
We already talked about meeting and every time he seemed interested, but it was me who suggested it.
I received hexagram 51.3<55
My emotional background is that I feel that NOW I have to give up trying to control situations in general in my life and I should learn letting go.
In 51: What must change? What will continue? is appropriate, as I want to be free of controlling.I have to change.
In James de Korne commentary, I found:
An external blow of fate will put to a test your inner strength. Try, at all costs, to maintain your composure. Look for an avenue of change that will alleviate the danger.
The idea is that your fate is demanding that you get moving, that you wake up from your torpor and take action in accordance with the goals of the Work.
A. Wake up and resolve your confusion.
B. Get a move on -- drastic circumstance demand drastic responses
Now it happened to me quite often that Yi responds to my general situation and not directly to my question.
So do you agree that it's reconfirming that I should stop asking questions about this guy and to contact or not, and should just let it go... and wait for him to contact? I openly expressed him my interest, so he can also make a move.
Thanks a lot for reading and if you have an insight, I appreciate it!
I met a person online and we talked about meeting personnaly when he is back in town. I don't want to be too pushy, I hesitate to remind him the date. I asked the oracle: What would be the effect if I take the initiative and invite him?
We already talked about meeting and every time he seemed interested, but it was me who suggested it.
I received hexagram 51.3<55
My emotional background is that I feel that NOW I have to give up trying to control situations in general in my life and I should learn letting go.
In 51: What must change? What will continue? is appropriate, as I want to be free of controlling.I have to change.
In James de Korne commentary, I found:
An external blow of fate will put to a test your inner strength. Try, at all costs, to maintain your composure. Look for an avenue of change that will alleviate the danger.
The idea is that your fate is demanding that you get moving, that you wake up from your torpor and take action in accordance with the goals of the Work.
A. Wake up and resolve your confusion.
B. Get a move on -- drastic circumstance demand drastic responses
Now it happened to me quite often that Yi responds to my general situation and not directly to my question.
So do you agree that it's reconfirming that I should stop asking questions about this guy and to contact or not, and should just let it go... and wait for him to contact? I openly expressed him my interest, so he can also make a move.
Thanks a lot for reading and if you have an insight, I appreciate it!