17.4 > 3 how should I act regarding my feelings?

I've been really depressed within my current relationship. We've just had a baby but I'm not in love with my partner anymore.

I've just realised that I have strong feelings towards a friend of mine who I've known for a few years.

I asked I Ching "how should I act regarding my feelings towards him?"

17.4 > 3

I take this reading to mean:

Although I've had a breakthrough (hex 3) if I follow my feelings (17) they will not lead to anything positive and I'll get in trouble?

Opinions are welcome :) please no harsh judgements! I'm only human!