I am in the intimate relationship with a man who has fear to face himself. And, recently, he is really angree and he gets triggered by such a small things. I guess it serms small to me, but not to him. For example, he couldn't find ants powder in the pantry, and he asked to my 17 years old son if he touched it. And I told him nobody toches it. Then he lost it. Took everything out from the pantry and looked for it, he couldn't find it. So I helped him looking for it. Then I asked him to put stuff away after. Then he said "because I couldn't find it, I am not cleaning up. You do it"I told him " do you teach your child that if she lost something and while she looks for it she made a mess, and end up with couldn't find it, then you say to her it is okay not clean up?" He has nothing to say but start to blame on me " because he didn't like what I said about nobody touched it when he asked my son. So I have to clean up. I told him I can help you clean up. But he was so mad, I started to clean up and I said thank you to him for I didn't know today was the day I clean up the pantry. Then he got madder and took off somewhere. Which always happens when he gets mad.Also he has issue with taking my personal belongings when he is angry. He takes my phone, keys, things he gave me as gifts etc... also threaten to leave the house and relationship in front of 2 years old daughter. I told him to stop that so many times yet he can not do that. On top of that he has jealousy issue. When I talk with my children's friend's father for setting up for children's play, he thinks I am having afair with him. He stalked me to the school at least a couple of times, he goes into my facebook and emails. I am getting to the point, if this relationship worth keep going. I became stronger to not affected by his attitude. But, I can not let him herm children every time he gets mad he has tempertentrum. That is why I put question "my destiny" I couldn't come up with other way to question it. I really appreciate your help on reading since I am new and hard for me to understand meaning. I am looking forward to hear from you. Thank you.
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