This guy has been pursuing me for a few months now. I find myself very hot and cold with him and feel certain we are not a good match even though I find him attractive and think he's a nice person. We had a nice weekend together, and I enjoyed his company for the most part. He's been really accepting of my uncertainty, and I would say things have been inching very slowly toward the possibility of a relationship. I'm not sure I want that even though I am enjoying the way things are.
I asked Yi how I should proceed with him. 4.3 > 18.
Am I the woman here that is making him into this man of bronze (I see this as a soulless idea of a person or something like that)? Or could it be that I should not pursue him because he idealizes me? I am curious about how gender shows up in the answers. Are the genders symbols and not direct responses to the question? Do most people use the use their intuition here or put some stock in the genders in the oracle?
Regardless, it does seem pretty clear that Yi is advising me against this person.
I asked Yi how I should proceed with him. 4.3 > 18.
Am I the woman here that is making him into this man of bronze (I see this as a soulless idea of a person or something like that)? Or could it be that I should not pursue him because he idealizes me? I am curious about how gender shows up in the answers. Are the genders symbols and not direct responses to the question? Do most people use the use their intuition here or put some stock in the genders in the oracle?
Regardless, it does seem pretty clear that Yi is advising me against this person.