Hello friends, hope you are well. Several weeks ago I invited colleague from my work (she no longer works there) for a cup of tea, as we had a fairly good connection. I sensed she is somewhat damaged/hurt but she has a good heart so I was curious about whether we can become friends. She unfortunately is very, very closed in her upper chakras and can't read people well- she spent more time with toxic people at our work, regrettably. She is married and there's no sexual attraction from both sides, so it was just an ordinary cup of tea. I listened to previous I Ching reading who said I shall go and meet with her which was a bit against my own will. So I did. The meeting went okay, but she was again very closed... it was Friday evening and we both had a day off but she wanted to talk about work... and it just confirmed my earlier suspicions that at the end of the day, there's really nothing ''for me'' in this relation apart from me ''entertaining her''. I asked I Ching whether I should invite her again? And got:
Hexagram 38.1>64
After a week or two, she meet with my other friend at the gym and asked ''How I am?'' (she asked her rather than me) also told her that ''the contact between me and her was cut off'' - in reality the way I see it is that I stopped talking to her over the FB and she did nothing to continue our relation. From experience I know those kind of people who never do 50:50 in a relation and always wait for you to do all the work. This doesn't feel right to me. Also, she recently recommended very toxic girl from my work to her hubby, who referred her for interview to a very high profile company position. This also feels wrong to me. My interpretation is that I should forget about this relation and that I Ching wanted to tell me that I should *always* listen to my intuition. But maybe I am missing something and reading that wrong? What do you guys think?
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Hexagram 38.1>64
