Hi everybody!I'm new to this place and I have never considered taking seriously the I-Ching before, although I heard of it. And read about it. I'm also not an English native speaker, so I'll do my best to explain the problem I face and I hope that somebody who knows better than I do will answer. I'm living in an emotional roller coaster at the moment. I'm deeply, deeply, awfully deeply in love with a man who is seven years older than me. Our love grew apparently from nothing, but the problem is a moral one. I'm married since 2004 and he lost his wife seven years ago. We met in a professional context and we fell in love in time. It was not love at first sight. It took a year to fall in love and two years to have sexual intercourse.This relationship lasted for four years when he suddenly realized that what we are doing is wrong. Well not quite suddenly, we both knew this, but this time he was very determined to end it. I can see that and I'm well aware that was wrong, but the connection and comptibility is/was so strong that I couldn't resist. I love him to the moon and back. But still for many many reasons I couldn't leave my husband. Financial and locative problems and a a big moral one: he is good to me. Two months ago we split because he said that this situation is not healthy, and that he couldn't live like that hiding anymore although, he said, he still loved me, shortly after, he fell in love with another woman who is free and doesn't have my problems. She is everything that he wished for. At the same time he says that our relationship was unique and that he misses me from time to time. We barely talk, but we do sometimes, if I call him. My problem is that I cannot eliberate myself from the daily responsibilities, nor I can't eliberate myself from this unbearbly powerful love that I have for him. He fills my life throught the bones. He broke my heart when I found out that he is in a relationship so quickly after our breakup that supposedly hurt him too, or so he says. He loves her, but he also tells me that there is a part of him that regrets our love. It confuses me a lot and at the same time I can't let go. I've cast the I-Ching and the answer was Hexagram 16 turn to Hexagram 2. Enthusiasm and Earth. I haven't got the slightest idea how to interpret it. It seems that there are many symbols right there that I don't know how to use for my question. The question was: what will happen with this relationship? Thank you a lot in advance! Marina
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